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form in which alone it could properly be introduced, that is to say as a
natural and inevitable part of general physiology.
This objection to animal physiology by no means applies, however, to
botany. There can be little doubt that botany is of all the natural
sciences that which best admits of this incidental instruction in the
fundamental facts of sex, when we are concerned with children below the
age of puberty. There are at least two reasons why this should be so. In
the first place botany really presents the beginnings of sex, in their
most naked and essential forms; it makes clear the nature, origin, and
significance of sex. In the second place, in dealing with plants the facts
of sex can be stated to children of either sex or any age quite plainly
and nakedly without any reserve, for no one nowadays regards the botanical
facts of sex as in any way offensive. The expounder of sex in plants also
has on his side the advantage of being able to assert, without question,
the entire beauty of the sexual process. He is not confronted by the
ignorance, bad education, and false associations which have made it so
difficult either to see or to show the beauty of sex in animals. From the
sex-life of plants to the sex-life of the lower animals there is, however,
but a step which the teacher, according to his discretion, may take.
An early educational authority, Salzmann, in 1785 advocated the
sexual enlightenment of children by first teaching them botany,
to be followed by zoölogy. In modern times the method of
imparting sex knowledge to children by means, in the first place,
of botany, has been generally advocated, and from the most
various quarters. Thus Marro (_La Pubertà_, p. 300) recommends
this plan. J. Hudrey-Menos ("La Question du Sexe dans
l'Education," _Revue Socialiste_, June, 1895), gives the same
advice. Rudolf Sommer, in a paper entitled "Mädchenerziehung oder
Menschenbildung?" (_Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I,
Heft 3) recommends that the first introduction of sex knowledge
to children should be made by talking to them on simple natural
history subjects; "there are endless opportunities," he remarks,
"over a fairy-tale, or a walk, or a fruit, or an egg, the sowing
of seed or the nest-building of birds." Canon Lyttelton
(_Training of the Young in Laws of Sex_, pp. 74 et seq.) advises
a somewhat similar method, though laying chief stress on personal
confidence between the child and his mother; "reference is made
to the animal world just so far as the child's knowledge extends,
so as to prevent the new facts from being viewed in isolation,
but the main emphasis is laid on his feeling for his mother and
the instinct which exists in nearly all children of reverence due
to the maternal relation;" he adds that, however difficult the
subject may seem, the essential facts of paternity must also be
explained to boys and girls alike. Keyes, again (_New York
Medical Journal_, Feb. 10, 1906), advocates teaching children
from an early age the sexual facts of plant life and also
concerning insects and other lower animals, and so gradually
leading up to human beings, the matter being thus robbed of its
unwholesome mystery. Mrs. Ennis Richmond (_Boyhood_, p. 62)
recommends that children should be sent to spend some of their
time upon a farm, so that they may not only become acquainted
with the general facts of the natural world, but also with the
sexual lives of animals, learning things which it is difficult to
teach verbally. Karina Karin ("Wie erzieht man ein Kind zür
wissenden Keuschheit?" _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_, Jahrgang I,
Heft 4), reproducing some of her talks with her nine-year old
son, from the time that he first asked her where children came
from, shows how she began with telling him about flowers, to pass
on to fish and birds, and finally to the facts of human
pregnancy, showing him pictures from an obstetrical manual of the
child in its mother's body. It may be added that the advisability
of beginning the sex teaching of children with the facts of
botany was repeatedly emphasized by various speakers at the
special meeting of the German Congress for Combating Venereal
Disease devoted to the subject of sexual instruction
(_Sexualpädagogik_, especially pp. 36, 47, 76).
The transition from botany to the elementary zoölogy of the lower animals,
to human anatomy and physiology, and to the science of anthropology based
on these, is simple and natural. It is not likely to be taken in detail
until the age of puberty. Sex enters into all these subjects and should
not be artificially excluded from them in the education of either boys or
girls. The text-books from which the sexual system is entirely omitted
ought no longer to be tolerated. The nature and secretion of the
testicles, the meaning of the ovaries and of menstruation, as well as the
significance of metabolism and the urinary excretion, should be clear in
their main lines to all boys and girls who have reached the age of
puberty.
At puberty there arises a new and powerful reason why boys and girls
should receive definite instruction in matters of sex. Before that age it
is possible for the foolish parent to imagine that a child may be
preserved in ignorant innocence.[25] At puberty that belief is obviously
no longer possible. The efflorescence of puberty with the development of
the sexual organs, the appearance of hair in unfamiliar places, the
general related organic changes, the spontaneous and perhaps alarming
occurrence in boys of seminal emissions, and in girls of menstruation, the
unaccustomed and sometimes acute recognition of sexual desire accompanied
by new sensations in the sexual organs and leading perhaps to
masturbation; all these arouse, as we cannot fail to realize, a new
anxiety in the boy's or girl's mind, and a new curiosity, all the more
acute in many cases because it is carefully concealed as too private, and
even too shameful, to speak of to anyone. In boys, especially if of
sensitive temperament, the suffering thus caused may be keen and
prolonged.
A doctor of philosophy, prominent in his profession, wrote to
Stanley Hall (_Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 452): "My entire youth,
from six to eighteen, was made miserable from lack of knowledge
that any one who knew anything of the nature of puberty might
have given; this long sense of defect, dread of operation, shame
and worry, has left an indelible mark." There are certainly many
men who could say the same. Lancaster ("Psychology and Pedagogy
of Adolescence," _Pedagogical Seminary_, July, 1897, pp. 123-5)
speaks strongly regarding the evils of ignorance of sexual
hygiene, and the terrible fact that millions of youths are always
in the hands of quacks who dupe them into the belief that they
are on the road to an awful destiny merely because they have
occasional emissions during sleep. "This is not a light matter,"
Lancaster declares. "It strikes at the very foundation of our
inmost life. It deals with the reproductory part of our natures,
and must have a deep hereditary influence. It is a natural result
of the foolish false modesty shown regarding all sex instruction.
Every boy should be taught the simple physiological facts before
his life is forever blighted by this cause." Lancaster has had in
his hands one thousand letters, mostly written by young people,
who were usually normal, and addressed to quacks who were duping
them. From time to time the suicides of youths from this cause
are reported, and in many mysterious suicides this has
undoubtedly been the real cause. "Week after week," writes the
_British Medical Journal_ in an editorial ("Dangerous Quack
Literature: The Moral of a Recent Suicide," Oct. 1, 1892), "we
receive despairing letters from those victims of foul birds of
prey who have obtained their first hold on those they rob,
torture and often ruin, by advertisements inserted by newspapers
of a respectable, nay, even of a valuable and respected,
character." It is added that the wealthy proprietors of such
newspapers, often enjoying a reputation for benevolence, even
when the matter is brought before them, refuse to interfere as
they would thereby lose a source of income, and a censorship of
advertisements is proposed. This, however, is difficult, and
would be quite unnecessary if youths received proper
enlightenment from their natural guardians.
Masturbation, and the fear that by an occasional and perhaps
outgrown practice of masturbation they have sometimes done
themselves irreparable injury, is a common source of anxiety to
boys. It has long been a question whether a boy should be warned
against masturbation. At a meeting of the Section of Psychology
of the British Medical Association some years ago, four speakers,
including the President (Dr. Blandford), were decidedly in favor
of parents warning their children against masturbation, while
three speakers were decidedly against that course, mainly on the
ground that it was possible to pass through even a public school
life without hearing of masturbation, and also that the warning
against masturbation might encourage the practice. It is,
however, becoming more and more clearly realized that ignorance,
even if it can be maintained, is a perilous possession, while the
teaching that consists, as it should, in a loving mother's
counsel to the child from his earliest years to treat his sexual
parts with care and respect, can only lead to masturbation in the
child who is already irresistibly impelled to it. Most of the sex
manuals for boys touch on masturbation, sometimes exaggerating
its dangers; such exaggeration should be avoided, for it leads to
far worse evils than those it attempts to prevent. It seems
undesirable that any warnings about masturbation should form part
of school instruction, unless under very special circumstances.
The sexual instruction imparted in the school on sexual as on
other subjects should be absolutely impersonal and objective.
At this point we approach one of the difficulties in the way of
sexual enlightenment: the ignorance or unwisdom of the would-be
teachers. This difficulty at present exists both in the home and
the school, while it destroys the value of many manuals written
for the sexual instruction of the young. The mother, who ought to
be the child's confidant and guide in matters of sexual
education, and could naturally be so if left to her own healthy
instincts, has usually been brought up in false traditions which
it requires a high degree of intelligence and character to escape
from; the school-teacher, even if only called upon to give
instruction in natural history, is oppressed by the same
traditions, and by false shame concerning the whole subject of
sex; the writer of manuals on sex has often only freed himself
from these bonds in order to advocate dogmatic, unscientific, and
sometimes mischievous opinions which have been evolved in entire
ignorance of the real facts. As Moll says (Das _Sexualleben des
Kindes_, p. 276), necessary as sexual enlightenment is, we cannot
help feeling a little skeptical as to its results so long as
those who ought to enlighten are themselves often in need of
enlightenment. He refers also to the fact that even among
competent authorities there is difference of opinion concerning
important matters, as, for instance, whether masturbation is
physiological at the first development of the sexual impulse and
how far sexual abstinence is beneficial. But it is evident that
the difficulties due to false tradition and ignorance will
diminish as sound traditions and better knowledge become more
widely diffused.
The girl at puberty is usually less keenly and definitely conscious of her
sexual nature than the boy. But the risks she runs from sexual ignorance,
though for the most part different, are more subtle and less easy to
repair. She is often extremely inquisitive concerning these matters; the
thoughts of adolescent girls, and often their conversation among
themselves, revolve much around sexual and allied mysteries. Even in the
matter of conscious sexual impulse the girl is often not so widely
different from her brother, nor so much less likely to escape the
contamination of evil communications, so that the scruples of foolish and
ignorant persons who dread to "sully her purity" by proper instruction are
exceedingly misplaced.
Conversations dealing with the important mysteries of human
nature, Obici and Marchesini were told by ladies who had formerly
been pupils in Italian Normal Schools, are the order of the day
in schools and colleges, and specially circle around procreation,
the most difficult mystery of all. In England, even in the best
and most modern colleges, in which games and physical exercise
are much cultivated, I am told that "the majority of the girls
are entirely ignorant of all sexual matters, and understand
nothing whatever about them. But they do wonder about them, and
talk about them constantly" (see Appendix D, "The School
Friendships of Girls," in the second volume of these _Studies_).
"The restricted life and fettered mind of girls," wrote a
well-known physician some years ago (J. Milner Fothergill,
_Adolescence_, 1880, pp. 20, 22) "leave them with less to
actively occupy their thoughts than is the case with boys. They
are studiously taught concealment, and a girl may be a perfect
model of outward decorum and yet have a very filthy mind. The
prudishness with which she is brought up leaves her no
alternative but to view her passions from the nasty side of human
nature. All healthy thought on the subject is vigorously
repressed. Everything is done to darken her mind and foul her
imagination by throwing her back on her own thoughts and a
literature with which she is ashamed to own acquaintance. It is
opposed to a girl's best interests to prevent her from having
fair and just conceptions about herself and her nature. Many a
fair young girl is irredeemably ruined on the very threshold of
life, herself and her family disgraced, from ignorance as much as
from vice. When the moment of temptation comes she falls without
any palpable resistance; she has no trained educated power of
resistance within herself; her whole future hangs, not upon
herself, but upon the perfection of the social safeguards by
which she is hedged and surrounded." Under the free social order
of America to-day much the same results are found. In an
instructive article ("Why Girls Go Wrong," _Ladies' Home
Journal_, Jan., 1907) B.B. Lindsey, who, as Judge of the Juvenile
Court of Denver, is able to speak with authority, brings forward
ample evidence on this head. Both girls and boys, he has found,
sometimes possess manuscript books in which they had written down
the crudest sexual things. These children were often sweet-faced,
pleasant, refined and intelligent, and they had respectable
parents; but no one had ever spoken to them of sex matters,
except the worst of their school-fellows or some coarse-minded
and reckless adult. By careful inquiry Lindsey found that only in
one in twenty cases had the parents ever spoken to the children
of sexual subjects. In nearly every case the children
acknowledged that it was not from their parents, but in the
street or from older companions, that they learnt the facts of
sex. The parents usually imagined that their children were
absolutely ignorant of these matters, and were astonished to
realize their mistake; "parents do not know their children, nor
have they the least idea of what their children know, or what
their children talk about and do when away from them." The
parents guilty of this neglect to instruct their children, are,
Lindsey declares, traitors to their children. From his own
experience he judges that nine-tenths of the girls who "go
wrong," whether or not they sink in the world, do so owing to the
inattention of their parents, and that in the case of most
prostitutes the mischief is really done before the age of twelve;
"every wayward girl I have talked to has assured me of this
truth." He considers that nine-tenths of school-boys and
school-girls, in town or country, are very inquisitive regarding
matters of sex, and, to his own amazement, he has found that in
the girls this is as marked as in the boys.
It is the business of the girl's mother, at least as much as of the boy's,
to watch over her child from the earliest years and to win her confidence
in all the intimate and personal matters of sex. With these aspects the
school cannot properly meddle. But in matters of physical sexual hygiene,
notably menstruation, in regard to which all girls stand on the same
level, it is certainly the duty of the teacher to take an actively
watchful part, and, moreover, to direct the general work of education
accordingly, and to ensure that the pupil shall rest whenever that may
seem to be desirable. This is part of the very elements of the education
of girls. To disregard it should disqualify a teacher from taking further
share in educational work. Yet it is constantly and persistently
neglected. A large number of girls have not even been prepared by their
mothers or teachers for the first onset of the menstrual flow, sometimes
with disastrous results both to their bodily and mental health.[26]
"I know of no large girl's school," wrote a distinguished
gynæcologist, Sir W.S. Playfair ("Education and Training of Girls
at Puberty," _British Medical Journal_, Dec. 7, 1895), "in which
the absolute distinction which exists between boys and girls as
regards the dominant menstrual function is systematically cared
for and attended to. Indeed, the feeling of all schoolmistresses
is distinctly antagonistic to such an admission. The contention
is that there is no real difference between an adolescent male
and female, that what is good for one is good for the other, and
that such as there is is due to the evil customs of the past
which have denied to women the ambitions and advantages open to
men, and that this will disappear when a happier era is
inaugurated. If this be so, how comes it that while every
practical physician of experience has seen many cases of anæmia
and chlorosis in girls, accompanied by amenorrhæa or menorrhagia,
headaches, palpitations, emaciation, and all the familiar
accompaniments of breakdown, an analogous condition in a
school-boy is so rare that it may well be doubted if it is ever
seen at all?"
It is, however, only the excuses for this almost criminal
negligence, as it ought to be considered, which are new; the
negligence itself is ancient. Half a century earlier, before the
new era of feminine education, another distinguished
gynæcologist, Tilt (_Elements of Health and Principles of Female
Hygiene_, 1852, p. 18) stated that from a statistical inquiry
regarding the onset of menstruation in nearly one thousand women
he found that "25 per cent. were totally unprepared for its
appearance; that thirteen out of the twenty-five were much
frightened, screamed, or went into hysterical fits; and that six
out of the thirteen thought themselves wounded and washed with
cold water. Of those frightened ... the general health was
seriously impaired."
Engelmann, after stating that his experience in America was
similar to Tilt's in England, continues ("The Health of the
American Girl," _Transactions of the Southern Surgical and
Gynæcological Society_, 1890): "To innumerable women has fright,
nervous and emotional excitement, exposure to cold, brought
injury at puberty. What more natural than that the anxious girl,
surprised by the sudden and unexpected loss of the precious
life-fluid, should seek to check the bleeding wound--as she
supposes? For this purpose the use of cold washes and
applications is common, some even seek to stop the flow by a cold
bath, as was done by a now careful mother, who long lay at the
point of death from the result of such indiscretion, and but
slowly, by years of care, regained her health. The terrible
warning has not been lost, and mindful of her own experience she
has taught her children a lesson which but few are fortunate
enough to learn--the individual care during periods of functional
activity which is needful for the preservation of woman's
health."
In a study of one hundred and twenty-five American high school
girls Dr. Helen Kennedy refers to the "modesty" which makes it
impossible even for mothers and daughters to speak to each other
concerning the menstrual functions. "Thirty-six girls in this
high school passed into womanhood with no knowledge whatever,
from a proper source, of all that makes them women. Thirty-nine
were probably not much wiser, for they stated that they had
received some instruction, but had not talked freely on the
matter. From the fact that the curious girl did not talk freely
on what naturally interested her, it is possible she was put off
with a few words as to personal care, and a reprimand for her
curiosity. Less than half of the girls felt free to talk with
their mothers of this most important matter!" (Helen Kennedy,
"Effects of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence,"
_Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1896.)
The same state of things probably also prevails in other
countries. Thus, as regards France, Edmond de Goncourt in
_Chérie_ (pp. 137-139) described the terror of his young heroine
at the appearance of the first menstrual period for which she
had never been prepared. He adds: "It is very seldom, indeed,
that women speak of this eventuality. Mothers fear to warn their
daughters, elder sisters dislike confidences with their younger
sisters, governesses are generally mute with girls who have no
mothers or sisters."
Sometimes this leads to suicide or to attempts at suicide. Thus a
few years ago the case was reported in the French newspapers of a
young girl of fifteen, who threw herself into the Seine at
Saint-Ouen. She was rescued, and on being brought before the
police commissioner said that she had been attacked by an
"unknown disease" which had driven her to despair. Discreet
inquiry revealed that the mysterious malady was one common to all
women, and the girl was restored to her insufficiently punished
parents.
Half a century ago the sexual life of girls was ignored by their parents
and teachers from reasons of prudishness; at the present time, when quite
different ideas prevail regarding feminine education, it is ignored on the
ground that girls should be as independent of their physiological sexual
life as boys are. The fact that this mischievous neglect has prevailed
equally under such different conditions indicates clearly that the varying
reasons assigned for it are merely the cloaks of ignorance. With the
growth of knowledge we may reasonably hope that one of the chief evils
which at present undermine in early life not only healthy motherhood but
healthy womanhood generally, may be gradually eliminated. The data now
being accumulated show not only the extreme prevalence of painful,
disordered, and absent menstruation in adolescent girls and young women,
but also the great and sometimes permanent evils inflicted upon even
healthy girls when at the beginning of sexual life they are subjected to
severe strain of any kind. Medical authorities, whichever sex they belong
to, may now be said to be almost or quite unanimous on this point. Some
years ago, indeed, Dr. Mary Putnam Jacobi, in a very able book, _The
Question of Rest for Women_, concluded that "ordinarily healthy" women may
disregard the menstrual period, but she admitted that forty-six per cent,
of women are not "ordinarily healthy," and a minority which comes so near
to being a majority can by no means be dismissed as a negligible quantity.
Girls themselves, indeed, carried away by the ardor of their pursuit of
work or amusement, are usually recklessly and ignorantly indifferent to
the serious risks they run. But the opinions of teachers are now tending
to agree with medical opinion in recognizing the importance of care and
rest during the years of adolescence, and teachers are even prepared to
admit that a year's rest from hard work during the period that a girl's
sexual life is becoming established, while it may ensure her health and
vigor, is not even a disadvantage from the educational point of view. With
the growth of knowledge and the decay of ancient prejudices, we may
reasonably hope that women will be emancipated from the traditions of a
false civilization, which have forced her to regard her glory as her
shame,--though it has never been so among robust primitive peoples,--and
it is encouraging to find that so distinguished an educator as Principal
Stanley Hall looks forward with confidence to such a time. In his
exhaustive work on _Adolescence_ he writes: "Instead of shame of this
function girls should be taught the greatest reverence for it, and should
help it to normality by regularly stepping aside at stated times for a few
years till it is well established and normal. To higher beings that looked
down upon human life as we do upon flowers, these would be the most
interesting and beautiful hours of blossoming. With more self-knowledge
women will have more self-respect at this time. Savagery reveres this
state and it gives to women a mystic awe. The time may come when we must
even change the divisions of the year for women, leaving to man his week
and giving to her the same number of Sabbaths per year, but in groups of
four successive days per month. When woman asserts her true physiological
rights she will begin here, and will glory in what, in an age of
ignorance, man made her think to be her shame. The pathos about the
leaders of woman's so-called emancipation, is that they, even more than
those they would persuade, accept man's estimate of this state."[27]
These wise words cannot be too deeply pondered. The pathos of the
situation has indeed been--at all events in the past for to-day a more
enlightened generation is growing up--that the very leaders of the woman's
movement have often betrayed the cause of women. They have adopted the
ideals of men, they have urged women to become second-rate men, they have
declared that the healthy natural woman disregards the presence of her
menstrual functions. This is the very reverse of the truth. "They claim,"
remarks Engelmann, "that woman in her natural state is the physical equal
of man, and constantly point to the primitive woman, the female of savage
peoples, as an example of this supposed axiom. Do they know how well this
same savage is aware of the weakness of woman and her susceptibility at
certain periods of her life? And with what care he protects her from harm
at these periods? I believe not. The importance of surrounding women with
certain precautions during the height of these great functional waves of
her existence was appreciated by all peoples living in an approximately
natural state, by all races at all times; and among their comparatively
few religious customs this one, affording rest to women, was most
persistently adhered to." It is among the white races alone that the
sexual invalidism of women prevails, and it is the white races alone,
which, outgrowing the religious ideas with which the menstrual seclusion
of women was associated, have flung away that beneficent seclusion itself,
throwing away the baby with the bath in an almost literal sense.[28]
In Germany Tobler has investigated the menstrual histories of
over one thousand women (_Monatsschrift für Geburtshülfe und
Gynäkologie_, July, 1905). He finds that in the great majority of
women at the present day menstruation is associated with
distinct deterioration of the general health, and diminution of
functional energy. In 26 per cent. local pain, general malaise,
and mental and nervous anomalies coexisted; in larger proportion
come the cases in which local pain, general weak health or
psychic abnormality was experienced alone at this period. In 16
per cent. only none of these symptoms were experienced. In a very
small separate group the physical and mental functions were
stronger during this period, but in half of these cases there was
distinct disturbance during the intermenstrual period. Tobler
concludes that, while menstruation itself is physiological, all
these disturbances are pathological.
As far as England is concerned, at a discussion of normal and
painful menstruation at a meeting of the British Association of
Registered Medical Women on the 7th of July, 1908, it was stated
by Miss Bentham that 50 per cent. of girls in good position
suffered from painful menstruation. Mrs. Dunnett said it usually
occurred between the ages of twenty-four and thirty, being
frequently due to neglect to rest during menstruation in the
earlier years, and Mrs. Grainger Evans had found that this
condition was very common among elementary school teachers who
had worked hard for examinations during early girlhood.
In America various investigations have been carried out, showing
the prevalence of disturbance in the sexual health of school
girls and young women. Thus Dr. Helen P. Kennedy obtained
elaborate data concerning the menstrual life of one hundred and
twenty-five high school girls of the average age of eighteen
("Effect of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence,"
_Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1896). Only twenty-eight felt no
pain during the period; half the total number experienced
disagreeable symptoms before the period (such as headache,
malaise, irritability of temper), while forty-four complained of
other symptoms besides pain during the period (especially
headache and great weakness). Jane Kelley Sabine (quoted in
_Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, Sept. 15, 1904) found in
New England schools among two thousand girls that 75 per cent.
had menstrual troubles, 90 per cent. had leucorrhoea and ovarian
neuralgia, and 60 per cent. had to give up work for two days
during each month. These results seem more than usually
unfavorable, but are significant, as they cover a large number of
cases. The conditions in the Pacific States are not much better.
Dr. Mary Ritter (in a paper read before the California State
Medical Society in 1903) stated that of 660 Freshmen girls at the
University of California, 67 per cent. were subject to menstrual
disorders, 27 per cent. to headaches, 30 per cent. to backaches,
29 per cent. were habitually constipated, 16 per cent. had
abnormal heart sounds; only 23 per cent. were free from
functional disturbances. Dr. Helen MacMurchey, in an interesting
paper on "Physiological Phenomena Preceding or Accompanying
Menstruation" (_Lancet_, Oct. 5, 1901), by inquiries among one
hundred medical women, nurses, and women teachers in Toronto
concerning the presence or absence of twenty-one different
abnormal menstrual phenomena, found that between 50 and 60 per
cent. admitted that they were liable at this time to disturbed
sleep, to headache, to mental depression, to digestive
disturbance, or to disturbance of the special senses, while about
25 to 50 per cent. were liable to neuralgia, to vertigo, to
excessive nervous energy, to defective nervous and muscular
power, to cutaneous hyperæsthesia, to vasomotor disturbances, to
constipation, to diarrhoea, to increased urination, to cutaneous
eruption, to increased liability to take cold, or to irritating
watery discharges before or after the menstrual discharge. This
inquiry is of much interest, because it clearly brings out the
marked prevalence at menstruation of conditions which, though not
necessarily of any gravity, yet definitely indicate decreased
power of resistance to morbid influences and diminished
efficiency for work.
How serious an impediment menstrual troubles are to a woman is
indicated by the fact that the women who achieve success and fame
seem seldom to be greatly affected by them. To that we may, in
part, attribute the frequency with which leaders of the women's
movement have treated menstruation as a thing of no importance in
a woman's life. Adele Gerhard, and Helene Simon, also, in their
valuable and impartial work, _Mutterschaft und Geistige Arbeit_
(p. 312), failed to find, in their inquiries among women of
distinguished ability, that menstruation was regarded as
seriously disturbing to work.
Of late the suggestion that adolescent girls shall not only rest
from work during two days of the menstrual period, but have an
entire holiday from school during the first year of sexual life,
has frequently been put forward, both from the medical and the
educational side. At the meeting of the Association of Registered
Medical Women, already referred to, Miss Sturge spoke of the good
results obtained in a school where, during the first two years
after puberty, the girls were kept in bed for the first two days
of each menstrual period. Some years ago Dr. G.W. Cook ("Some
Disorders of Menstruation," _American Journal of Obstetrics_,
April, 1896), after giving cases in point, wrote: "It is my
deliberate conviction that no girl should be confined at study
during the year of her puberty, but she should live an outdoor
life." In an article on "Alumna's Children," by "An Alumna"
(_Popular Science Monthly_, May, 1904), dealing with the sexual
invalidism of American women and the severe strain of motherhood
upon them, the author, though she is by no means hostile to
education, which is not, she declares, at fault, pleads for rest
for the pubertal girl. "If the brain claims her whole vitality,
how can there be any proper development? Just as very young
children should give all their strength for some years solely to
physical growth before the brain is allowed to make any
considerable demands, so at this critical period in the life of
the woman nothing should obstruct the right of way of this
important system. A year at the least should be made especially
easy for her, with neither mental nor nervous strain; and
throughout the rest of her school days she should have her
periodical day of rest, free from any study or overexertion." In
another article on the same subject in the same journal ("The
Health of American Girls," Sept., 1907), Nellie Comins Whitaker
advocates a similar course. "I am coming to be convinced,
somewhat against my wish, that there are many cases when the girl
ought to be taken out of school entirely for some months or for a
year _at the period of puberty_." She adds that the chief
obstacle in the way is the girl's own likes and dislikes, and the
ignorance of her mother who has been accustomed to think that
pain is a woman's natural lot.
Such a period of rest from mental strain, while it would fortify
the organism in its resistance to any reasonable strain later,
need by no means be lost for education in the wider sense of the
word, for the education required in classrooms is but a small
part of the education required for life. Nor should it by any
means be reserved merely for the sickly and delicate girl. The
tragic part of the present neglect to give girls a really sound
and fitting education is that the best and finest girls are
thereby so often ruined. Even the English policeman, who
admittedly belongs in physical vigor and nervous balance to the
flower of the population, is unable to bear the strain of his
life, and is said to be worn out in twenty-five years. It is
equally foolish to submit the finest flowers of girlhood to a
strain which is admittedly too severe.
It seems to be clear that the main factor in the common sexual and general
invalidism of girls and young women is bad hygiene, in the first place
consisting in neglect of the menstrual functions and in the second place
in faulty habits generally. In all the more essential matters that concern
the hygiene of the body the traditions of girls--and this seems to be more
especially the case in the Anglo-Saxon countries--are inferior to those of
youths. Women are much more inclined than men to subordinate these things
to what seems to them some more urgent interest or fancy of the moment;
they are trained to wear awkward and constricting garments, they are
indifferent to regular and substantial meals, preferring innutritious and
indigestible foods and drinks; they are apt to disregard the demands of
the bowels and the bladder out of laziness or modesty; they are even
indifferent to physical cleanliness.[29] In a great number of minor ways,
which separately may seem to be of little importance, they play into the
hands of an environment which, not always having been adequately adjusted
to their special needs, would exert a considerable stress and strain even
if they carefully sought to guard themselves against it. It has been found
in an American Women's College in which about half the scholars wore
corsets and half not, that nearly all the honors and prizes went to the
non-corset-wearers. McBride, in bringing forward this fact, pertinently
remarks, "If the wearing of a single style of dress will make this
difference in the lives of young women, and that, too, in their most
vigorous and resistive period, how much difference will a score of
unhealthy habits make, if persisted in for a life-time?"[30]
"It seems evident," A.E. Giles concludes ("Some Points of
Preventive Treatment in the Diseases of Women," _The Hospital_,
April 10, 1897) "that dysmenorrhoea might be to a large extent
prevented by attention to general health and education. Short
hours of work, especially of standing; plenty of outdoor
exercise--tennis, boating, cycling, gymnastics, and walking for
those who cannot afford these; regularity of meals and food of
the proper quality--not the incessant tea and bread and butter
with variation of pastry; the avoidance of overexertion and
prolonged fatigue; these are some of the principal things which
require attention. Let girls pursue their study, but more
leisurely; they will arrive at the same goal, but a little
later." The benefit of allowing free movement and exercise to the
whole body is undoubtedly very great, both as regards the sexual
and general physical health and the mental balance; in order to
insure this it is necessary to avoid heavy and constricting
garments, more especially around the chest, for it is in
respiratory power and chest expansion more than in any other
respect that girls fall behind boys (see, e.g., Havelock Ellis,
_Man and Woman_, Ch. IX). In old days the great obstacle to the
free exercise of girls lay in an ideal of feminine behavior which
involved a prim restraint on every natural movement of the body.
At the present day that ideal is not so fervently preached as of
old, but its traditional influence still to some extent persists,
while there is the further difficulty that adequate time and
opportunity and encouragement are by no means generally afforded
to girls for the cultivation and training of the romping
instincts which are really a serious part of education, for it is
by such free exercise of the whole body that the neuro-muscular
system, the basis of all vital activity, is built up. The neglect
of such education is to-day clearly visible in the structure of
our women. Dr. F. May Dickinson Berry, Medical Examiner to the
Technical Education Board of the London County Council, found
(_British Medical Journal_, May 28, 1904) among over 1,500 girls,
who represent the flower of the schools, since they had obtained
scholarships enabling them to proceed to higher grade schools,
that 22 per cent, presented some degree, not always pronounced,
of lateral curvature of the spine, though such cases were very
rare among the boys. In the same way among a very similar class
of select girls at the Chicago Normal School, Miss Lura Sanborn
(_Doctors' Magazine_, Dec., 1900) found 17 per cent, with spinal
curvature, in some cases of a very pronounced degree. There is no
reason why a girl should not have as straight a back as a boy,
and the cause can only lie in the defective muscular development
which was found in most of the cases, sometimes accompanied by
anæmia. Here and there nowadays, among the better social classes,
there is ample provision for the development of muscular power in
girls, but in any generalized way there is no adequate
opportunity for such exercise, and among the working class, above
all, in the section of it which touches the lower middle class,
although their lives are destined to be filled with a constant
strain on the neuro-muscular system from work at home or in
shops, etc., there is usually a minimum of healthy exercise and
physical development. Dr. W.A.B. Sellman, of Baltimore ("Causes
of Painful Menstruation in Unmarried Women," _American Journal
Obstetrics_, Nov., 1907), emphasizes the admirable results
obtained by moderate physical exercise for young women, and in
training them to care for their bodies and to rest their nervous
systems, while Dr. Charlotte Brown, of San Francisco, rightly
insists on the establishment in all towns and villages alike of
outdoor gymnastic fields for women and girls, and of a building,
in connection with every large school, for training in physical,
manual, and domestic science. The provision of special
playgrounds is necessary where the exercising of girls is so
unfamiliar as to cause an embarrassing amount of attention from
the opposite sex, though when it is an immemorial custom it can
be carried out on the village green without attracting the
slightest attention, as I have seen in Spain, where one cannot
fail to connect it with the physical vigor of the women. In boys'
schools games are not only encouraged, but made compulsory; but
this is by no means a universal rule in girls' schools. It is not
necessary, and is indeed highly undesirable, that the games
adopted should be those of boys. In England especially, where the
movements of women are so often marked by awkwardness, angularity
and lack of grace, it is essential that nothing should be done to
emphasize these characteristics, for where vigor involves
violence we are in the presence of a lack of due neuro-muscular
coördination. Swimming, when possible, and especially some forms
of dancing, are admirably adapted to develop the bodily movements
of women both vigorously and harmoniously (see, e.g., Havelock
Ellis, _Man and Woman_, Ch. VII). At the International Congress
of School Hygiene in 1907 (see, e.g., _British Medical Journal_,
Aug. 24, 1907) Dr. L.H. Gulick, formerly Director of Physical
Training in the Public Schools of New York City, stated that
after many experiments it had been found in the New York
elementary and high schools that folk-dancing constituted the
very best exercise for girls. "The dances selected involved many
contractions of the large muscular masses of the body and had
therefore a great effect on respiration, circulation and
nutrition. Such movements, moreover, when done as dances, could
be carried on three or four times as long without producing
fatigue as formal gymnastics. Many folk-dances were imitative,
sowing and reaping dance, dances expressing trade movements (the
shoemaker's dance), others illustrating attack and defense, or
the pursuit of game. Such neuro-muscular movements were racially
old and fitted in with man's expressive life, and if it were
accepted that the folk-dances really expressed an epitome of
man's neuro-muscular history, as distinguished from mere
permutation of movements, the folk-dance combinations should be
preferred on these biological grounds to the unselected, or even
the physiologically selected. From the æsthetic point of view the
sense of beauty as shown in dancing was far commoner than the
power to sing, paint or model."
It must always be remembered that in realizing the especial demands of
woman's nature, we do not commit ourselves to the belief that higher
education is unfitted for a woman. That question may now be regarded as
settled. There is therefore no longer any need for the feverish anxiety of
the early leaders of feminine education to prove that girls can be
educated exactly as if they were boys, and yield at least as good
educational results. At the present time, indeed, that anxiety is not only
unnecessary but mischievous. It is now more necessary to show that women
have special needs just as men have special needs, and that it is as bad
for women, and therefore, for the world, to force them to accept the
special laws and limitations of men as it would be bad for men, and
therefore, for the world, to force men to accept the special laws and
limitations of women. Each sex must seek to reach the goal by following
the laws of its own nature, even although it remains desirable that, both
in the school and in the world, they should work so far as possible side
by side. The great fact to be remembered always is that, not only are
women, in physical size and physical texture, slighter and finer than men,
but that to an extent altogether unknown among men, their centre of
gravity is apt to be deflected by the series of rhythmic sexual curves on
which they are always living. They are thus more delicately poised and any
kind of stress or strain--cerebral, nervous, or muscular--is more likely
to produce serious disturbance and requires an accurate adjustment to
their special needs.
The fact that it is stress and strain in general, and not
necessarily educational studies, that are injurious to adolescent
women, is sufficiently proved, if proof is necessary, by the fact
that sexual arrest, and physical or nervous breakdown, occur with
extreme frequency in girls who work in shops or mills, even in
girls who have never been to school at all. Even excesses in
athletics--which now not infrequently occur as a reaction against
woman's indifference to physical exercise--are bad. Cycling is
beneficial for women who can ride without pain or discomfort,
and, according to Watkins, it is even beneficial in many diseased
and disordered pelvic conditions, but excessive cycling is evil
in its results on women, more especially by inducing rigidity of
the perineum to an extent which may even prevent childbirth and
necessitate operation. I may add that the same objection applies
to much horse-riding. In the same way everything which causes
shocks to the body is apt to be dangerous to women, since in the
womb they possess a delicately poised organ which varies in
weight at different times, and it would, for instance, be
impossible to commend football as a game for girls. "I do not
believe," wrote Miss H. Ballantine, Director of Vassar College
Gymnasium, to Prof. W. Thomas (_Sex and Society_, p. 22) "women
can ever, no matter what the training, approach men in their
physical achievements; and," she wisely adds, "I see no reason
why they should." There seem, indeed, as has already been
indicated, to be reasons why they should not, especially if they
look forward to becoming mothers. I have noticed that women who
have lived a very robust and athletic outdoor life, so far from
always having the easy confinements which we might anticipate,
sometimes have very seriously difficult times, imperilling the
life of the child. On making this observation to a distinguished
obstetrician, the late Dr. Engelmann, who was an ardent advocate
of physical exercise for women (in e.g. his presidential address,
"The Health of the American Girl," _Transactions Southern
Surgical and Gynæcological Association_, 1890), he replied that
he had himself made the same observation, and that instructors in
physical training, both in America and England, had also told him
of such cases among their pupils. "I hold," he wrote, "precisely
the opinion you express [as to the unfavorable influence of
muscular development in women]. _Athletics_, i.e., overdone
physical training, causes the girl's system to approximate to the
masculine; this is so whether due to sport or necessity. The
woman who indulges in it approximates to the male in her
attributes; this is marked in diminished sexual intensity, and in
increased difficulty of childbirth, with, in time, lessened
fecundity. Healthy habits improve, but masculine muscular
development diminishes, womanly qualities, although it is true
that the peasant and the laboring woman have easy labor. I have
never advocated muscular development for girls, only physical
training, but have perhaps said too much for it and praised it
too unguardedly. In schools and colleges, so far, however, it is
insufficient rather than too much; only the wealthy have too much
golf and athletic sports. I am collecting new material, but from
what I already have seen I am impressed with the truth of what
you say. I am studying the point, and shall elaborate the
explanation." Any publication on this subject was, however,
prevented by Engelmann's death a few years later.
A proper recognition of the special nature of woman, of her peculiar needs
and her dignity, has a significance beyond its importance in education and
hygiene. The traditions and training to which she is subjected in this
matter have a subtle and far-reaching significance, according as they are
good or evil. If she is taught, implicitly or explicitly, contempt for the
characteristics of her own sex, she naturally develops masculine ideals
which may permanently discolor her vision of life and distort her
practical activities; it has been found that as many as fifty per cent. of
American school girls have masculine ideals, while fifteen per cent.
American and no fewer than thirty-four per cent. English school girls
wished to be men, though scarcely any boys wished to be women.[31] With
the same tendency may be connected that neglect to cultivate the emotions,
which, by a mischievously extravagant but inevitable reaction from the
opposite extreme, has sometimes marked the modern training of women. In
the finely developed woman, intelligence is interpenetrated with emotion.
If there is an exaggerated and isolated culture of intelligence a tendency
shows itself to disharmony which breaks up the character or impairs its
completeness. In this connection Reibmayr has remarked that the American
woman may serve as a warning.[32] Within the emotional sphere itself, it
may be added, there is a tendency to disharmony in women owing to the
contradictory nature of the feelings which are traditionally impressed
upon her, a contradiction which dates back indeed to the identification of
sacredness and impurity at the dawn of civilization. "Every girl and
woman," wrote Hellmann, in a pioneering book which pushed a sound
principle to eccentric extremes, "is taught to regard her sexual parts as
a precious and sacred spot, only to be approached by a husband or in
special circumstances a doctor. She is, at the same time, taught to regard
this spot as a kind of water-closet which she ought to be extremely
ashamed to possess, and the mere mention of which should cause a painful
blush."[33] The average unthinking woman accepts the incongruity of this
opposition without question, and grows accustomed to adapt herself to each
of the incompatibles according to circumstances. The more thoughtful woman
works out a private theory of her own. But in very many cases this
mischievous opposition exerts a subtly perverting influence on the whole
outlook towards Nature and life. In a few cases, also, in women of
sensitive temperament, it even undermines and ruins the psychic
personality.
Thus Boris Sidis has recorded a case illustrating the disastrous
results of inculcating on a morbidly sensitive girl the doctrine
of the impurity of women. She was educated in a convent. "While
there she was impressed with the belief that woman is a vessel of
vice and impurity. This seemed to have been imbued in her by one
of the nuns who was very holy and practiced self-mortification.
With the onset of her periods, and with the observation of the
same in the other girls, this doctrine of female impurity was all
the stronger impressed on her sensitive mind." It lapsed,
however, from conscious memory and only came to the foreground in
subsequent years with the exhaustion and fatigue of prolonged
office work. Then she married. Now "she has an extreme abhorrence
of women. Woman, to the patient, is impurity, filth, the very
incarnation of degradation and vice. The house wash must not be
given to a laundry where women work. Nothing must be picked up in
the street, not even the most valuable object, perchance it might
have been dropped by a woman" (Boris Sidis, "Studies in
Psychopathology," _Boston Medical and Surgical Journal_, April 4,
1907). That is the logical outcome of much of the traditional
teaching which is given to girls. Fortunately, the healthy mind
offers a natural resistance to its complete acceptation, yet it
usually, in some degree, persists and exerts a mischievous
influence.
It is, however, not only in her relations to herself and to her sex that a
girl's thoughts and feelings tend to be distorted by the ignorance or the
false traditions by which she is so often carefully surrounded. Her
happiness in marriage, her whole future career, is put in peril. The
innocent young woman must always risk much in entering the door of
indissoluble marriage; she knows nothing truly of her husband, she knows
nothing of the great laws of love, she knows nothing of her own
possibilities, and, worse still, she is even ignorant of her ignorance.
She runs the risk of losing the game while she is still only beginning to
learn it. To some extent that is quite inevitable if we are to insist
that a woman should bind herself to marry a man before she has experienced
the nature of the forces that marriage may unloose in her. A young girl
believes she possesses a certain character; she arranges her future in
accordance with that character; she marries. Then, in a considerable
proportion of cases (five out of six, according to the novelist Bourget),
within a year or even a week, she finds she was completely mistaken in
herself and in the man she has married; she discovers within her another
self, and that self detests the man to whom she is bound. That is a
possible fate against which only the woman who has already been aroused to
love is entitled to regard herself as fairly protected.
There is, however, a certain kind of protection which it is possible to
afford the bride, even without departing from our most conventional
conceptions of marriage. We can at least insist that she shall be
accurately informed as to the exact nature of her physical relations to
her future husband and be safeguarded from the shocks or the disillusions
which marriage might otherwise bring. Notwithstanding the decay of
prejudices, it is probable that even to-day the majority of women of the
so-called educated class marry with only the vaguest and most inaccurate
notions, picked up more or less clandestinely, concerning the nature of
the sexual relationships. So highly intelligent a woman as Madame Adam has
stated that she believed herself bound to marry a man who had kissed her
on the mouth, imagining that to be the supreme act of sexual union,[34]
and it has frequently happened that women have married sexually inverted
persons of their own sex, not always knowingly, but believing them to be
men, and never discovering their mistake; it is not long indeed since in
America three women were thus successively married to the same woman, none
of them apparently ever finding out the real sex of the "husband." "The
civilized girl," as Edward Carpenter remarks, "is led to the 'altar'
often in uttermost ignorance and misunderstanding of the sacrificial rites
about to be consummated." Certainly more rapes have been effected in
marriage than outside it.[35] The girl is full of vague and romantic faith
in the promises of love, often heightened by the ecstasies depicted in
sentimental novels from which every touch of wholesome reality has been
carefully omitted. "All the candor of faith is there," as Sénancour puts
it in his book _De l'Amour_, "the desires of inexperience, the needs of a
new life, the hopes of an upright heart. She has all the faculties of
love, she must love; she has all the means of pleasure, she must be loved.
Everything expresses love and demands love: this hand formed for sweet
caresses, an eye whose resources are unknown if it must not say that it
consents to be loved, a bosom which is motionless and useless without
love, and will fade without having been worshipped; these feelings that
are so vast, so tender, so voluptuous, the ambition of the heart, the
heroism of passion! She needs must follow the delicious rule which the law
of the world has dictated. That intoxicating part, which she knows so
well, which everything recalls, which the day inspires and the night
commands, what young, sensitive, loving woman can imagine that she shall
not play it?" But when the actual drama of love begins to unroll before
her, and she realizes the true nature of the "intoxicating part" she has
to play, then, it has often happened, the case is altered; she finds
herself altogether unprepared, and is overcome with terror and alarm. All
the felicity of her married life may then hang on a few chances, her
husband's skill and consideration, her own presence of mind. Hirschfeld
records the case of an innocent young girl of seventeen--in this case, it
eventually proved, an invert--who was persuaded to marry but on
discovering what marriage meant energetically resisted her husband's
sexual approaches. He appealed to her mother to explain to her daughter
the nature of "wifely duties." But the young wife replied to her mother's
expostulations, "If that is my wifely duty then it was your parental duty
to have told me beforehand, for, if I had known, I should never have
married." The husband in this case, much in love with his wife, sought for
eight years to over-persuade her, but in vain, and a separation finally
took place.[36] That, no doubt, is an extreme case, but how many innocent
young inverted girls never realize their true nature until after marriage,
and how many perfectly normal girls are so shocked by the too sudden
initiation of marriage that their beautiful early dreams of love never
develop slowly and wholesomely into the acceptance of its still more
beautiful realities?
Before the age of puberty it would seem that the sexual initiation of the
child--apart from such scientific information as would form part of school
courses in botany and zoölogy--should be the exclusive privilege of the
mother, or whomever it may be to whom the mother's duties are delegated.
At puberty more authoritative and precise advice is desirable than the
mother may be able or willing to give. It is at this age that she should
put into her son's or daughter's hands some one or other of the very
numerous manuals to which reference has already been made (page 53),
expounding the physical and moral aspects of the sexual life and the
principles of sexual hygiene. The boy or girl is already, we may take it,
acquainted with the facts of motherhood, and the origin of babies, as well
as, more or less precisely, with the father's part in their procreation.
Whatever manual is now placed in his or her hands should at least deal
summarily, but definitely, with the sexual relationship, and should also
comment, warningly but in no alarmist spirit, with the chief auto-erotic
phenomena, and by no means exclusively with masturbation. Nothing but good
can come of the use of such a manual, if it has been wisely selected; it
will supplant what the mother has already done, what the teacher may still
be doing, and what later may be done by private interview with a doctor.
It has indeed been argued that the boy or girl to whom such literature is
presented will merely make it an opportunity for morbid revelry and
sensual enjoyment. It can well be believed that this may sometimes happen
with boys or girls from whom all sexual facts have always been
mysteriously veiled, and that when at last they find the opportunity of
gratifying their long-repressed and perfectly natural curiosity they are
overcome by the excitement of the event. It could not happen to children
who have been naturally and wholesomely brought up. At a later age, during
adolescence, there is doubtless great advantage in the plan, now
frequently adopted, especially in Germany, of giving lectures, addresses,
or quiet talks to young people of each sex separately. The speaker is
usually a specially selected teacher, a doctor or other qualified person
who may be brought in for this special purpose.
Stanley Hall, after remarking that sexual education should be
chiefly from fathers to sons and from mothers to daughters, adds:
"It may be that in the future this kind of initiation will again
become an art, and experts will tell us with more confidence how
to do our duty to the manifold exigencies, types and stages of
youth, and instead of feeling baffled and defeated, we shall see
that this age and theme is the supreme opening for the highest
pedagogy to do its best and most transforming work, as well as
being the greatest of all opportunities for the teacher of
religion" (Stanley Hall, _Adolescence_, vol. i, p. 469). "At
Williams College, Harvard, Johns Hopkins and Clark," the same
distinguished teacher observes (ib., p. 465), "I have made it a
duty in my departmental teaching to speak very briefly, but
plainly to young men under my instruction, personally if I deemed
it wise, and often, though here only in general terms, before
student bodies, and I believe I have nowhere done more good, but
it is a painful duty. It requires tact and some degree of hard
and strenuous common sense rather than technical knowledge."
It is scarcely necessary to say that the ordinary teacher of
either sex is quite incompetent to speak of sexual hygiene. It is
a task to which all, or some, teachers must be trained. A
beginning in this direction has been made in Germany by the
delivery to teachers of courses of lectures on sexual hygiene in
education. In Prussia the first attempt was made in Breslau when
the central school authorities requested Dr. Martin Chotzen to
deliver such a course to one hundred and fifty teachers who took
the greatest interest in the lectures, which covered the anatomy
of the sexual organs, the development of the sexual instinct, its
chief perversions, venereal diseases, and the importance of the
cultivation of self-control. In _Geschlecht und Gesellschaft_
(Bd. i, Heft 7) Dr. Fritz Reuther gives the substance of lectures
which he has delivered to a class of young teachers; they cover
much the same ground as Chotzen's.
There is no evidence that in England the Minister of Education
has yet taken any steps to insure the delivery of lectures on
sexual hygiene to the pupils who are about to leave school. In
Prussia, however, the Ministry of Education has taken an active
interest in this matter, and such lectures are beginning to be
commonly delivered, though attendance at them is not usually
obligatory. Some years ago (in 1900), when it was proposed to
deliver a series of lectures on sexual hygiene to the advanced
pupils in Berlin schools, under the auspices of a society for the
improvement of morals, the municipal authorities withdrew their
permission to use the classrooms, on the ground that "such
lectures would be extremely dangerous to the moral sense of an
audience of the young." The same objection has been made by
municipal officials in France. In Germany, at all events,
however, opinion is rapidly growing more enlightened. In England
little or no progress has yet been made, but in America steps are
being taken in this direction, as by the Chicago Society for
Social Hygiene. It must, indeed, be said that those who oppose
the sexual enlightenment of youth in large cities are directly
allying themselves, whether or not they know it, with the
influences that make for vice and immorality.
Such lectures are also given to girls on leaving school, not only
girls of the well-to-do, but also those of the poor class, who
need them fully as much, and in some respects more. Thus Dr. A.
Heidenhain has published a lecture (_Sexuelle Belehrung der aus
den Volksschule entlassenen Mädchen_, 1907), accompanied by
anatomical tables, which he has delivered to girls about to leave
school, and which is intended to be put into their hands at this
time. Salvat, in a Lyons thesis (_La Dépopulation de la France_,
1903), insists that the hygiene of pregnancy and the care of
infants should form part of the subject of such lectures. These
subjects might well be left, however, to a somewhat later period.
Something is clearly needed beyond lectures on these matters. It should be
the business of the parents or other guardians of every adolescent youth
and girl to arrange that, once at least at this period of life, there
should be a private, personal interview with a medical man to afford an
opportunity for a friendly and confidential talk concerning the main
points of sexual hygiene. The family doctor would be the best for this
duty because he would be familiar with the personal temperament of the
youth and the family tendencies.[37] In the case of girls a woman doctor
would often be preferred. Sex is properly a mystery; and to the unspoilt
youth, it is instinctively so; except in an abstract and technical form it
cannot properly form the subject of lectures. In a private and
individualized conversation between the novice in life and the expert, it
is possible to say many necessary things that could not be said in public,
and it is possible, moreover, for the youth to ask questions which shyness
and reserve make it impossible to put to parents, while the convenient
opportunity of putting them naturally to the expert otherwise seldom or
never occurs. Most youths have their own special ignorances, their own
special difficulties, difficulties and ignorances that could sometimes be
resolved by a word. Yet it by no means infrequently happens that they
carry them far on into adult life because they have lacked the
opportunity, or the skill and assurance to create the opportunity, of
obtaining enlightenment.
It must be clearly understood that these talks are of medical, hygienic,
and physiological character; they are not to be used for retailing moral
platitudes. To make them that would be a fatal mistake. The young are
often very hostile to merely conventional moral maxims, and suspect their
hollowness, not always without reason. The end to be aimed at here is
enlightenment. Certainly knowledge can never be immoral, but nothing is
gained by jumbling up knowledge and morality together.
In emphasizing the nature of the physician's task in this matter as purely
and simply that of wise practical enlightenment, nothing is implied
against the advantages, and indeed the immense value in sexual hygiene, of
the moral, religious, ideal elements of life. It is not the primary
business of the physician to inspire these, but they have a very intimate
relation with the sexual life, and every boy and girl at puberty, and
never before puberty, should be granted the privilege--and not the duty or
the task--of initiation into those elements of the world's life which are,
at the same time, natural functions of the adolescent soul. Here, however,
is the sphere of the religious or ethical teacher. At puberty he has his
great opportunity, the greatest he can ever obtain. The flower of sex that
blossoms in the body at puberty has its spiritual counterpart which at the
same moment blossoms in the soul. The churches from of old have recognized
the religious significance of this moment, for it is this period of life
that they have appointed as the time of confirmation and similar rites.
With the progress of the ages, it is true, such rites become merely formal
and apparently meaningless fossils. But they have a meaning nevertheless,
and are capable of being again vitalized. Nor in their spirit and essence
should they be confined to those who accept supernaturally revealed
religion. They concern all ethical teachers, who must realize that it is
at puberty that they are called upon to inspire or to fortify the great
ideal aspirations which at this period tend spontaneously to arise in the
youth's or maiden's soul.[38]
The age of puberty, I have said, marks the period at which this new kind
of sexual initiation is called for. Before puberty, although the psychic
emotion of love frequently develops, as well as sometimes physical sexual
emotions that are mostly vague and diffused, definite and localized sexual
sensations are rare. For the normal boy or girl love is usually an
unspecialized emotion; it is in Guyau's words "a state in which the body
has but the smallest place." At the first rising of the sun of sex the
boy or girl sees, as Blake said he saw at sunrise, not a round yellow body
emerging above the horizon, or any other physical manifestation, but a
great company of singing angels. With the definite eruption of physical
sexual manifestation and desire, whether at puberty or later in
adolescence, a new turbulent disturbing influence appears. Against the
force of this influence, mere intellectual enlightenment, or even loving
maternal counsel--the agencies we have so far been concerned with--may be
powerless. In gaining control of it we must find our auxiliary in the fact
that puberty is the efflorescence not only of a new physical but a new
psychic force. The ideal world naturally unfolds itself to the boy or girl
at puberty. The magic of beauty, the instinct of modesty, the naturalness
of self-restraint, the idea of unselfish love, the meaning of duty, the
feeling for art and poetry, the craving for religious conceptions and
emotions--all these things awake spontaneously in the unspoiled boy or
girl at puberty. I say "unspoiled," for if these things have been thrust
on the child before puberty when they have yet no meaning for him--as is
unfortunately far too often done, more especially as regards religious
notions--then it is but too likely that he will fail to react properly at
that moment of his development when he would otherwise naturally respond
to them. Under natural conditions this is the period for spiritual
initiation. Now, and not before, is the time for the religious or ethical
teacher as the case may be--for all religions and ethical systems may
equally adapt themselves to this task--to take the boy or girl in hand,
not with any special and obtrusive reference to the sexual impulses but
for the purpose of assisting the development and manifestation of this
psychic puberty, of indirectly aiding the young soul to escape from sexual
dangers by harnessing his chariot to a star that may help to save it from
sticking fast in any miry ruts of the flesh.
Such an initiation, it is important to remark, is more than an
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