Psychopathia sexualis: With especial reference to contrary sexual instinct
2. _The Association of Passively Endured Cruelty and Violence, with
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Lust—Masochism._[60]—Masochism is the opposite of sadism. While the
latter is the desire to cause pain and use force, the former is the wish
to suffer pain and be subjected to force.
By masochism I understand a peculiar perversion of the psychical vita
sexualis, in which the individual affected, in sexual feeling and
thought, is controlled by the idea of being completely and
unconditionally subject to the will of a person of the opposite sex; of
being treated by this person as by a master,—humiliated and abused. This
idea is colored by lustful feeling; the individual affected lives in
fancies, in which he creates situations of this kind, and often attempts
to realize them. By this perversion his sexual instinct is not
infrequently made more or less insensible to the normal stimulus of the
opposite sex,—incapable of a normal vita sexualis,—psychically impotent.
But this psychical impotence does not in any way depend upon a _horror
sexus alterius_, but upon the fact that this perverse instinct finds an
adequate satisfaction differing from the normal,—in woman, to be sure,
but not in coitus.
But cases also occur, in which, with the perverse impulse, there is also
sensibility, in a measure, to normal stimuli, and intercourse under
normal conditions takes place. In other cases the impotence is not
purely psychical, but physical, _i.e._, spinal; for this perversion,
like almost all other perversions of the sexual instinct, is developed
only on the basis of a psychopathic and, for the most part, hereditarily
predisposed individuality; and, as a rule, such individuals give
themselves up to excesses, particularly masturbation, to which the
difficulty of attaining what their fancy creates, drives them again and
again.
The number of cases of undoubted masochism thus far observed is very
large. Whether masochism occurs associated with normal sexual instincts,
or exclusively controls the individual; whether, and to what extent, the
individual subject to this perversion strives to realize his peculiar
fancies or not; whether he has thus more or less diminished his virility
or not,—depends upon the degree of intensity of the perversion in the
single case, and upon the strength of the opposing ethical and æsthetic
motives, as well as the relative power of the physical and mental
organization, of the affected individual. The essential thing, from the
psychopathic point of view, and the common element in all these cases,
is _the fact that the sexual instinct is directed to ideas of
subjugation and abuse by the opposite sex_.
What has been said with reference to the impulsive character
(indistinctness of motive) of the resulting acts, and with reference to
the original (congenital) nature of the perversion in sadism, is also
true in masochism.
In masochism there is also a gradation of the acts from the most
repulsive and monstrous to the silliest, in accordance with the degree
of intensity of the perverse instinct, and the power of the remnants of
moral and æsthetic motives that oppose it. The ultimate consequences of
masochism, however, are opposed by the instinct of self-preservation,
and, therefore, murder and serious injury, which may be committed in
sadistic excitement, have here, as far as known, no passive equivalent
in reality; but the perverse desires of masochistic individuals may, in
imagination, attain these extreme consequences (_v. infra_, Case 54).
Moreover, the acts to which masochists give themselves up, are performed
in some cases in connection with coitus, _i.e._, as preparatory
measures; in others, as substitutes for coitus when that is impossible.
Here, too, this depends only upon the condition of sexual power, which
has been diminished for the most part physically and mentally by the
activity of the sexual ideas in the perverse direction, and not upon the
nature of the act itself.
(_a_) _The Desire for Abuse and Humiliation as a Means of Sexual
Satisfaction._—The following detailed autobiography of a masochist,
gives an exhaustive description of a typical case of this remarkable
perversion:—
Case 44. I come of a neuropathic family, in which, with all kinds of
peculiarities of character and manner of life, there are several
abnormalities of a sexual nature. My imagination has always been very
lively, and was very early directed to sexual matters. As far as I can
remember, I was much given to onanism long before puberty. Even at
that time my thoughts were, for hours at a time, directed to
intercourse with females. But the relations in which I placed myself
with the opposite sex were entirely peculiar. I fancied that I was a
prisoner and absolutely in a woman’s power, and that this woman used
her power to hurt and abuse me in every way possible. In this,
whipping and blows played an important part in my fancy, and there
were many other acts and situations which all expressed the condition
of vassalage and subjection. I saw myself constantly kneeling before
my ideal, trod upon, loaded with chains, and imprisoned. Severe
punishments of all kinds were inflicted on me, to test my obedience
and please my mistress. The more severely I was humiliated and abused,
the more I indulged in these thoughts. (At the same time I developed a
great preference for velvet and fur, which I liked to touch and
smooth, and which likewise excited me sexually.)
I remember well that when a child I received many actual whippings at
the hands of females. They never caused me any other feeling than pain
and shame; never have I thought to connect such realities with my
fancies. A threat to punish me severely and correct me agitated me
painfully; but in my fancy I assumed a desire on the part of my
“mistress” to enjoy my suffering and humiliation, which entranced me.
Too, I have never brought into relation with my fancies the acts and
orders of the females that have taken care of me. I was early able to
discover the truth about the relation of the sexes; but this knowledge
made no impression on me. The idea of sensual pleasure remained
connected with the fancies with which it was originally associated. I
also had the desire to touch females, to embrace and kiss them, but I
looked for the greatest delight only in their maltreatment, and in
situations in which they would cause me to feel their power. I soon
came to realize that I differed from other men, and preferred to be
alone and absorbed in my dreams. In my boyhood, real girls and women
had but little interest for me; for I saw no possibility of having
them act in the way I desired. On lonely paths in the forest I whipped
myself with branches that had fallen from the trees, and allowed my
imagination to play in the habitual way. I reveled in the sight of
pictures of commanding women, particularly if, like queens, they wore
furs. I read everything related to my cherished ideas. “Rousseau’s
Confessions,” which then fell into my hands, was a great discovery. I
found a condition described that resembled mine in essentials. I was
still more astonished at the similarity of my ideas to those I read of
in the writings of Sacher-Masoch. I devoured them all with avidity,
though the blood-curdling scenes often far outdid my imagination, and
then excited my aversion. Later, in order to supply new food for my
fancy, I began to write descriptions of erotic scenes to my taste, and
to make drawings of situations which, up to this time, I had painted
only in imagination. In this, reality was entirely an indifferent
matter to me. In the presence of a woman I was devoid of every sensual
feeling; at most, at the sight of a feminine foot, there would come a
fleeting wish to be trod upon by it.
This indifference, however, was only in relation to pure sensuality.
In late boyhood and early youth I was subject to an enthusiastic
partiality for young girls of my acquaintance, with all the
extravagances common to this youthful enthusiasm. But it never
occurred to me to connect the world of my sensual thoughts with these
pure ideals. I never had to overcome such a thought; one never came to
me. This is the more remarkable, since to me my lustful fancies seemed
very strange and unattainable in reality, but in no wise vile or
obnoxious. This, too, was a kind of poetry with me; but it was divided
into two worlds,—on the one hand was my heart, or, rather, my
æsthetically excited fancy; on the other, my sensually inflamed
imagination. While my “elevated” feeling always had a certain young
girl for its object, at other times I saw myself at the feet of a
mature woman, who treated me as previously described. I never placed
any lady of my acquaintance in this rôle. In dreams the two spheres of
my erotic ideas occurred alternately, but never combined. Only the
images of the sensual sphere induced pollutions.
In my nineteenth year I allowed myself, with outward reluctance, but
with inward desire, to be taken by friends to visit prostitutes. But
there I experienced nothing but repugnance and aversion, and left as
soon as possible, without having felt the faintest trace of sensual
excitement. Later, on my own initiative, I repeated the attempt, in
order to convince myself as to whether I was impotent or not; for I
was much troubled by my unexpected failure in the first instance. The
result was always the same,—I felt no excitement at all, and had not
the slightest erection. In the first place, it was not possible for me
to regard a real woman as an object of sensual gratification; and,
furthermore, I could not renounce the conditions and situations which
were the principal things _in sexualibus_ for me, and about which
nothing could induce me to speak a word. Imissio penis—the act to be
undertaken by me—seemed to me absolutely senseless and unclean. Again,
in the second place, there was also my repugnance for common women,
and fear of infection.
In the meantime, in secret, my sexual life went on in the old fashion.
Whenever my old fancies came to mind, violent erection occurred, and I
provoked ejaculations almost daily. I began to suffer with all kinds
of nervous troubles, and now regarded myself as impotent, in spite of
powerful erections and intense desire when I was alone. Nevertheless,
from time to time I continued my experiments with prostitutes. In time
I overcame my timidity, and in part my aversion to contact with common
women; but I remained absolutely cold.
After I had, with advancing years, overcome to some extent my shyness
and my inclination to indulge in dreams, in my sexual thought there
was an approach to the normal, as I began to direct my interest to
real persons. I was even successful in directing sensual thoughts to
women of my acquaintance, without carrying over any of my peculiar
ideas from the other sphere. Thus I had some affairs with respectable
girls. Embracing and kissing occurred; desire was excited, but not the
power,—at least, it was too weak to allow me to think that under
normal circumstances I should be virile. Of course, the attention I
gave to the excitation of my sexual power was not calculated to favor
this. Thus, always greatly ashamed, I broke off the relations.
With this, my old habit continued. I was still a great onanist, even
though with lessened power. But my fancy no longer satisfied me
entirely. I now began to follow both respectable women and others on
the street; in winter, particularly those wearing velvet and furs. I
often followed prostitutes to their homes, and had them perform
manustupration. I always thought I should find more real pleasure in
that than in my fancies; but it was always less. When the woman took
off her garments, my interest followed them. The empty clothing has
never attracted me very strongly, but more than the nude female. The
real object of my interest was the attired woman. In this, velvet and
furs play the most important part; but also all other articles of
attire attracted me, and particularly the form as brought out by
lacing and padding. I had scarcely any other interest in the nude
female form than an æsthetic one. I have always had a very great
interest in the shoes of women, particularly in slippers with high
heels, which is always connected with the thought of being trod upon,
or of submissively kissing the foot.
At last I overcame the last vestige of my shyness, and one day, to
realize my dreams, had myself whipped, trod upon, etc., by a
prostitute. The result was a _great disappointment_. What was done to
me I felt to be rough, repugnant, and silly. The blows caused me
nothing but pain; the situation, repugnance and shame. Nevertheless, I
induced an ejaculation mechanically, with which, with the help of my
imagination, I transformed the real situation into that for which I
longed. This—the really desired situation—differed from the actual
essentially in that I created in imagination a woman who abused me
with the same pleasure that I experienced in her maltreatment of me.
All my sexual fancies were erected on the assumption in the woman of a
tyrannical, cruel disposition, to which I wished to be subject. The
act expressing the relation was a secondary matter to me. After the
first attempt at an impossible realization, it was perfectly clear to
me toward what my longing was directed. To be sure, in my lustful
dreams, I had often passed beyond all ideas of abuse, and conceived a
commanding woman, with an imperious mien, a word of command, a kiss on
the foot, etc; but now I fully realized what it was that attracted me,
and that flagellation was only the strongest means of expressing the
principle, and in itself secondary.
In spite of this disappointment, after the first step, I did not
abandon my efforts to realize my erotic ideas. I was confident that,
when once accustomed to the new reality, my fancy would find food in
it for more intense activity. For my purpose I sought the most
suitable women, and instructed them carefully in a complicated comedy.
In this I occasionally found that the way had been prepared for me by
predecessors of like disposition. The value of these comedies, for the
effect of my fancy on my sensuality, remained problematical. What
these acts and scenes did for me, in the way of intensifying the
subsidiary circumstances of the desired situation, caused a diminution
of the intensity of the principal element, which my unaided fancy,
without the consciousness of planned, coarse deception, could more
easily bring up before me. My physical sensations, under the various
punishments, were changeable. The more perfect the self-deception, the
more perfectly the pain was felt as pleasure.
Or, more correctly, the punishment was then conceived as a symbolic
act. From this arose the illusion of the desired situation, which was
then accompanied by an intense psychical feeling of pleasure. The
lustful feeling then spread out over the whole body in lustful
physical sensations, and thus the perception of the painful quality of
the punishment was overcome. The process in the moral punishments—the
humiliations to which I subjected myself—was similar, but simpler;
because it was confined to the mental sphere. These were also attended
with pleasurable feeling when the self-deception succeeded. It was
seldom, however, that it succeeded well, and never perfectly; there
always remained a disturbing element in consciousness. Therefore, in
the intervals, I returned to solitary onanism. Moreover, in the other
case, the conclusion of the act was usually an ejaculation provoked by
onanism; often an ejaculation without the aid of mechanical means.
Thus I went on for many years, with diminishing power, but with
slightly diminished desire, and with the power of my peculiar sexual
idea over me unchanged. And at present the condition of my vita
sexualis is the same. Coitus, which I have never performed, still
seems to me a strange and unclean act. I learned about it from
descriptions of sexual dissipations. My own sexual ideas seem natural,
and do not in the least offend my sensitive taste. Their realization,
as previously mentioned, for various reasons, leaves me unsatisfied. I
am pleased with pretty girls and women of respectability, but for a
long time I have ceased to approach them. I have never attained, not
even partially, a direct, actual realization of my sexual fancy. As
often as I have come into close relation with females, I have felt the
woman’s will to be beneath mine, never _vice versâ_. I have never met
a woman manifesting a desire of mastery in sexual things. Women who
wish to rule in the household and exercise petticoat sovereignty are
entirely different from my erotic ideals.
My whole personality presents many abnormalities besides the
perversion of my vita sexualis; my neuropathic condition is expressed
in many mental and physical symptoms. Besides, I think I recognize in
myself an original abnormality of character in the nature of a
resemblance to the feminine type; at least, I regard as of this nature
my great weakness of will, and my great lack of courage in the
presence of men and animals, which is in contrast with my coolness in
the face of peril. My external appearance is entirely masculine.
The author of this autobiography also made me the following
communication:—
“I always sought to find out whether the peculiar ideas that ruled me
sexually were entertained by other men. Since the first stories about
it accidentally came to my ears, I have sought everywhere to learn of
it. Since it is really a process of inner consciousness, it is, of
course, not easy to identify it, and it cannot always be done with
certainty; but I assume the existence of masochism where I find
perverse sexual acts that cannot be explained except by this
dominating idea. I look upon this anomaly as wide-spread.
“I have heard numerous stories about it from prostitutes here in
Berlin, and in Vienna; and I thus learned how numerous my
fellow-sufferers are. I am always careful not to describe my own
experiences, or ask whether they know of such; but I allow these
persons to relate their experiences just as they will.
“Simple flagellation is so common that almost every prostitute is
familiar with it; but cases of real masochism are very frequent. The
men subject to this perversion submit themselves to the most refined
cruelties. In this they always act the same farce with the instructed
prostitutes,—humiliating subjection of the man, treading upon him,
commands, threats, and scoldings that have been committed to memory;
then flagellation, blows on various portions of the body, and all
kinds of punishment, pricking with needles, etc. The scenes often end
with coitus, but more frequently with ejaculation without it. Twice
prostitutes have shown me heavy iron chains with handcuffs, which
their patrons had made for them to put on them; and the dried peas, on
which they kneeled; the seat set with needles, on which they sat at
command; and many other similar things. Often the perverted man wishes
the woman to tie his penis so tightly as to cause pain; to prick it
with needles, make cuts in it with a knife, or beat it with a stick.
Even the act of hanging is indulged in, it being cut short at just the
right moment. Others have themselves scratched with a knife or dagger,
but in the act the woman must threaten them with death. In all these
things the symbolism of subjection is the most important factor. The
woman is usually called ‘mistress’; the man, ‘slave.’
“A man of high social standing, dressed as a servant, sat on the box
of a carriage and drove his mistress about. Here there may have been a
conscious imitation of the ‘Venus in Furs.’ It seems to me that the
writings of Sacher-Masoch have done much to develop this perversion in
those predisposed. It is peculiar that the inexplicable enthusiasm for
furs is so frequently combined with this perversion. It, as well as
that for velvet, has been peculiar to me from my earliest youth.
“All these comedies with prostitutes are for masochists only
troublesome substitutes. Whether there is such a thing as a
realization of masochistic dreams in love relations or not, I do not
know. If it occur, it is certainly very infrequent; for this taste in
women (sadism in women, as described by Sacher-Masoch) is very
difficult to find; and, too, the expression of sexual abnormalities
finds greater obstacles in the modesty of women, etc., than in men. I
myself have never noticed the slightest indications of anything of
this kind, and have never been able to attempt an actual realization
of my fancies. Once a man confidingly told me of his masochistic
perversion, and said he had found his ideal.”
The two following cases are similar to the foregoing:—
Case 45. Mr. Z., aged 29, technicist, came for consultation because of
a fear of tabes. Father was nervous and died tabetic. Father’s sister
was insane. Several relatives are very nervous and peculiar. On closer
examination the patient is found to have sexual, spinal, and cerebral
asthenia. He presents no symptoms of tabes dorsalis, nor does he give
a history of them. Questions concerning abuse of the sexual organs
bring out a confession of masturbation practiced since youth. In the
course of the examination the following interesting psycho-sexual
anomalies came out: At the age of five the vita sexualis began with
the impulse to whip himself, as well as with the desire to see others
whipped. In this he never thought of individuals as of one sex or the
other. _Faute de mieux_ he practiced flagellation on himself and, in
time, this induced ejaculation. Long before this he had begun to
satisfy himself with masturbation, and always during the act reveled
in imaginary scenes of whipping. After growing up he twice visited
brothels to have himself flogged by prostitutes. For this purpose he
chose the prettiest girl he could find; but he was disappointed, and
did not even have an erection, to say nothing of ejaculation. He
recognized that the flagellation was subsidiary, and that the idea of
subjection to the woman’s will was the important thing. He realized
this on the second trial. When he had the “thought of subjection,” he
was perfectly successful. In time, by straining his imagination with
masochistic ideas, he performed coitus without flagellation; but he
found little satisfaction in it; so that he performed sexual
intercourse in a masochistic way. He found pleasure in masochistic
scenes, in the sense of his original desire for flagellation, only
when he was flagellated _ad podicem_, or, at least, only when he
called up such a situation in imagination. At times of great
excitability it was even sufficient if a pretty girl told stories of
such scenes. He would thus have an orgasm, and usually ejaculation.
A very effectual fetichistic idea was early associated with this. He
noticed that he was attracted and satisfied only by women wearing high
heels and short jackets (“Hungarian fashion”). He does not know how he
arrived at this fetichistic idea. Boys’ legs with high heels also
pleased him, but this charm was purely æsthetic, without any sensual
coloring; and he said he had never noticed anything homo-sexual in
himself. The patient referred his fetichism to his partiality for
calves (legs). He is charmed by ladies’ calves only when elegant shoes
are on the feet. Nude legs—feminine nudity in general—do not in the
least affect him sexually. A subordinate fetichistic idea for the
patient is the masculine ear. It is a lustful pleasure for him to pet
the ears of handsome men, _i.e._, men having beautiful ears. With men
this pleasure is slight, but with women it gives him great enjoyment.
He also has a weakness for cats. He thinks them simply beautiful; and
their movements are very attractive to him. The sight of a cat can
raise him from a feeling of the deepest depression. Cats seem to him
sacred; he sees something divine in them! He does not know the reason
for this idiosyncrasy.
Of late he has also frequently had sadistic ideas about punishing
boys. In these imaginary flagellations both men and women play a part,
but particularly the latter; and then his enjoyment is much more
intense.
The patient finds that, with that which he recognizes and feels as
masochism, there is something else which he prefers to designate
“pageism.”
While his masochistic fancies and acts are entirely of a coarse,
sensual nature, his “pageism” consists of the idea of being a page to
a beautiful girl. He conceives her as perfectly chaste, but piquant;
his relation to her, that of a slave, but perfectly chaste,—a purely
platonic submission. This reveling in the idea of serving such a
“beautiful creature” as a page, is colored by a pleasurable feeling;
but this is in no way sexual. He experienced in it an exquisite
feeling of moral satisfaction, in contrast with the sensually-colored
masochism; and, therefore, he could but regard it as something of a
different nature.
At first sight there was nothing remarkable in the patient’s
appearance; but his pelvis is abnormally broad, the ilia are flat, and
the pelvis, as a whole, tilted and decidedly feminine. Eyes,
neuropathic. He also mentions that he often has itching and lustful
irritation at the anus, and that there (“erogenous” area), _ope
digiti_, he can satisfy himself.
The patient is troubled about his future. Help would be possible for
him if he could but excite in himself an interest in women, but his
will and imagination were too weak for that.
What the patient designates as “pageism” does not differ in any way from
masochism, as may be seen when it is compared with the following cases
of symbolic masochism, and others; and, further, upon the consideration
that in this perversion coitus is avoided as an inadequate act; and from
the fact that in such cases there is often a fantastic exaltation of the
perverse ideal:—
Case 46. X, writer, aged 28, predisposed. Sexually hyperæsthetic from
childhood. At the age of six he had dreams of being whipped ad nates
by a woman. After them he would awake in intense lustful excitement;
and thus he came to practice onanism. When eight years old he once
asked the cook to whip him. From his tenth year, neurasthenia. Until
his twenty-fifth year he had dreams of flagellation, or similar waking
fancies, and indulged in onanism. Three years ago he had an impulse to
have himself whipped by a puella. The patient was undeceived, for
neither erection nor ejaculation occurred. At twenty-seven, another
effort, with the thought to enforce erection and ejaculation. This was
finally made possible by the following artifice: While coitus was
attempted, the puella had to tell him how she had mercilessly flogged
other impotent men, and threaten him with the same. Besides this, it
was necessary for him to fancy that he was bound, entirely in the
woman’s power, helpless, and most painfully beaten by her.
Occasionally, in order to become potent, it was necessary to have
himself actually bound. Thus coitus was possible. Pollutions were
accompanied by lustful feeling only when he (infrequently) dreamed
that he was abused, or that he looked on while a puella whipped
others. He never had an intense, lustful pleasure in coitus. The only
things in women that interest him are the hands. Powerful women with
big fists are his preference. At the same time, his desire for
flagellation is only ideal; for with his great cutaneous
sensitiveness, at the most, a few strokes are sufficient. Blows from
men were repugnant to him. He wishes to marry. From the impossibility
of asking a decent woman to perform flagellation, and the doubt about
being potent with such a woman, spring his embarrassment and desire to
recover.
In the foregoing three cases, for the most part, passive flagellation
serves the individual subject to this perversion of masochism as an
expression of the desired situation of subjection to the woman. The same
means is needed by a large number of masochists. But passive
flagellation is a process which, as is known, has a tendency to induce
erection reflexly by irritation of the nerves of the nates.[61] This
effect of flagellation is used by weakened debauchees to help their
diminished power; and this perversity—not perversion—is very common. It
is, therefore, necessary to ascertain in what relation the passive
flagellation of the masochists stands to these dissipated individuals
who are not psychically perverse, but physically weakened.
It is not difficult to show that masochism is something essentially
different from flagellation, and more comprehensive; that flagellation
is rather a by-play,—one of the many means used for the purpose of
masochistic gratification in the sense of subjection to the woman. For
the masochist the principal thing is subjection to the woman; the
punishment is only the expression of this relation,—the most intense
effect of it he can bring upon himself. For him the act has only a
symbolic value, and is a means to the end of mental satisfaction of his
peculiar desires. The essential thing is the desire for ill-treatment,
as a sign of this subjection. Besides flagellation, and often without
it, there are many other things which serve to express this subjection;
as is shown by the following series of cases. This fact establishes a
presumption of the existence of an original anomaly of sexual feeling,—a
paræsthesia sexualis. On the other hand, the individual that is weakened
and not a subject of masochism, and who has himself flagellated, desires
only a mechanical irritation of his spinal centre.
Whether, in a given case, it is simple (reflex) flagellation or
masochism, is made clear by the individual’s statements, and often by
the secondary circumstances. The determination depends upon the
following facts:—
In the _first_ place, the impulse to passive flagellation exists _ab
origine_ in the masochist. The desire is felt before there has been any
experience of the reflex effect, often first in dreams; as, for example,
in Case 48. _Secondly_, with the masochist, as a rule, the flagellation
is only one of many and various punishments which come into his mind as
fancies and are often realized. In these other punishments, and the
frequent acts expressing purely symbolic humiliations, which occur by
the side of flagellation, there can, of course, be no thought of a
reflex physical irritative effect. _Thirdly_, it is significant that, in
the masochist, when the desired flagellation is carried out, it need
have no aphrodisiac effect at all. Very often, indeed, there is a more
or less perfect disappointment; in fact, always, if the masochist is not
successful in his desire to create, by means of the pre-arranged
programme, the illusion of the desired situation (to be in the woman’s
power), so that the woman ordered to carry out the act seems to be
nothing more than the executive agent of his own will. If one cannot
tickle one’s self, no more can one feel one’s self subject to a woman
directed by one’s own will. In reference to this important point,
compare the three foregoing cases and Case 50.
Between masochism and simple (reflex) flagellation, there is a relation
somewhat analogous to that existing between contrary sexual instinct and
acquired pederasty. It does not lessen the value of this opinion that,
in the masochist, the flagellation may also have the known reflex
effect; or that a whipping received in childhood may have aroused lust
for the first time, and thus simultaneously excited the latent
masochistically-constituted vita sexualis. In this event, the case must
be characterized by the conditions mentioned above, under the heads of
“_secondly_” and “_thirdly_,” in order to be masochistic. If the details
of the origin of the case are not known, other circumstances, such as
those mentioned above under “_secondly_,” would make it clearly
masochistic. This is illustrated in the two following cases:—
Case 47. A patient of Tarnowsky’s had a person in his confidence rent
a house during his attacks, and instruct its _personnel_ (three
prostitutes) in what was to be done with him. He would come there, and
was there undressed, manustuprated, and flagellated, as ordered. He
pretended to offer resistance, and begged for mercy; then, as ordered,
he was allowed to eat and sleep. But in spite of protest he was kept
there, and beaten if he did not submit. Thus the affair would go on
for some days. When the attack was over, he was dismissed; and he
returned to his wife and children, who had no suspicion of his
disease. The attacks occurred once or twice a year. (Tarnowsky, _op.
cit._)
Case 48. X., aged 34, greatly predisposed, suffers with contrary
sexual instinct. For various reasons he had no opportunity to satisfy
himself with men, in spite of great sexual desire. Occasionally he
dreamed that a woman whipped him, and then had a pollution.
Through this dream he came to have prostitutes beat him as a
substitute for love with men. Occasionally he would obtain a
prostitute, undress himself completely (while she was not to take off
a thing), and have her tread upon him, whip, and beat him. Qua re
summa libidine affectus pedem feminæ lambit quod solum eum libidinosum
facere potest: tum ejaculationem assequitur. Then disgust at the
morally-debasing situation occurred, and he retired as quickly as
possible.
Cases occur, however, in which passive flagellation alone constitutes
the entire content of the masochistic fancies, without other ideas of
humiliation, etc., and without any clear consciousness of the real
nature of this expression of submission. Such cases are difficult to
differentiate from those of simple reflex flagellation. A knowledge of
the primary origin of the desire, before any experience of reflex
stimuli (_v. supra_, under “_first_”), is the only thing that makes the
differential diagnosis certain; taken with the circumstance that genuine
masochists are perverse in their youth, and that the realization of
their desires usually comes late, or undeceives them (_v. supra_, under
“_thirdly_”); for the whole thing, for the most part, belongs to the
sphere of the imagination.
The following case is of this nature:—
Case 49. _Autobiography._—In January, 1891, I received the following
letter from a gentleman in Hungary: “In depression and despair of a
life that shuts me out from all that makes human happiness, I come to
you with the last gleam of hope of rescue from a condition which, if
it continue, can end only tragically.
“I am thirty years old, and come of a mother who suffered with
periodical insanity. As early as my fourteenth year abnormal sexual
tendencies were noticeable in me. It always gave me a certain lustful
pleasure to be whipped by boys of my own age, particularly when I was
taken over the knee and spanked. It particularly delighted me when
this was done by handsome young persons or boys having well formed
legs and closely-fitting trousers. By means of such ideas I also came
to masturbate; and I practiced onanism quite frequently,—almost daily,
and, in fact, in absolute ignorance of the terrible results of the
vice. Thus it continued until my eighteenth year, when, thus far
absolutely unsuspecting, I was made aware of the vicious results of
the practice.
“From this time began the terrible struggle with the desire to give it
up, which I only too often abandoned. The fancies mentioned did not
leave me; I longed to be whipped by handsome young persons aged from
twenty to twenty-two years, wearing tight trousers. My fancy was
filled especially with young soldiers and hussars. At times I was able
to repress my imagination and avoid onanism; but I then had pollutions
with dreams of the same nature.
“After my twentieth year, to my astonishment, the sexual inclination
toward women, which I had noticed in comrades of my own age, and the
occurrence of which I expected in myself, did not appear. I was cold
toward women, and embarrassed in their presence. At the same time,
feminine nudity was not unpleasant; on the contrary, there was
something attractive about it, but my sensuality was not excited.
“I twice attempted coitus; I was not troubled about being in bed with
the girl, but rather kissed and embraced her with pleasure, and even
had traces of erection, but that was all. Since then I have had no
hope, and occasionally returned to onanism, which I had avoided for
some months previously. Nevertheless, I cultivated social intercourse
with ladies, and particularly young girls; and I was esteemed in
society, and liked for my graceful dancing. I was always hoping that
in this way my unhappy tendency would be overcome successfully, but in
vain; it grew constantly stronger. Thus I have lived hours of
wretchedness; and the ghost of suicide has passed before me. I once
confided in a physician in Pesth, but he had only the usual remedies
for persons suffering with sexual weakness,—cold baths, quieting
medicines, intercourse with women, etc.
“I tried everything in vain, until by accident a book on contrary
sexual instinct fell into my hands, and gave me the last ray of hope.
I have a respected position as a merchant, and appreciate thoroughly
the joys of family life; and I have an opportunity to marry, under the
most favorable circumstances, a young girl whom I love, and who loves
me. But I feel the cruel impossibility of this step. I suffer terribly
in thinking about these repulsive abnormalities. My only hope lies in
a cure by means of hypnosis. May it not be in vain!”
Pity and a scientific interest induced me to invite the writer of the
preceding lines to come to see me. Early in February Mr. D. came. He
was distinguished, pleasing, and masculine in appearance. Examination
of the case showed it to be one of masochism. He distinctly remembered
that, when he once saw fellow-pupils whipped by the teacher, it gave
him a feeling of lustful pleasure. He cannot remember that he was ever
whipped by a teacher. His masochism had been an _absolutely primary
manifestation_, and incomprehensible to him. Only gradually and _faute
de mieux_ had he come to practice onanism, during which ideas of
flagellation, in which he played the passive _rôle_, filled his mind.
He had never had desire to be whipped by the teacher; he always wished
to be flogged by fellow-pupils and well-grown young persons. Since
maturity he had never been able to induce himself to satisfy his
masochistic inclinations.
In intercourse with puellis he had repeatedly had the thought to have
himself whipped by them; but since this was not accompanied by sensual
feeling, it was not carried out. The patient declares that his
inclinations toward persons of his own sex are purely masochistic. In
other respects he finds nothing interesting in men. Until his
eighteenth year the patient had also sadistic tendencies. He was
enthusiastic about the position of the pedagogue and wanted to be a
teacher in order to be able to flog boys. _This ideal sadism later
disappeared entirely._ The patient complains that he feels alone in
the world, like a pariah, and that he is different from other men. But
his libido toward women had much diminished, possibly as a result of
his masturbation. He had no erection at the sight of feminine charms,
but the sight of a riding-whip or a cane excited him powerfully
sexually. When he attempted coitus, no masochistic ideas occurred.
Such ideas arose, however, whenever he saw attractive young men. He
believed that if he were freed from his ideas of flagellation, he
would be helped; for his sensuality would then direct itself in a
normal path.
The patient has neuropathic eyes, but is free from all degenerative
signs. In the direction of hereditary taint, it is noteworthy that his
maternal grandfather was peculiar, and shot himself while in a
psychopathic condition. The patient feels well, save for slight
neurasthenic troubles. Patellar reflex increased. The genitals are
perfectly normal. His dreams with pollutions are exclusively about
flagellation by young persons, particularly soldiers with tight
trousers.
The principles of treatment laid down were: 1. Removal of the symptoms
of neurasthenia. 2. Suggestive treatment looking to (_a_) avoidance of
onanism; (_b_) indifference toward his own sex and the disappearance
of thoughts of flagellation, both while awake and asleep; (_c_) libido
exclusively toward persons of the opposite sex, the occurrence of
erections at sight of beautiful women, complete power with women, and
dreams of women exclusively. At the first sitting, by means of
Bernheim’s method, the patient passed quickly into a state of deep
lethargy. At the second sitting (February 5) a cataleptic condition of
the muscles was induced. Sittings almost daily. It was seen that
stroking the brow induced deeper hypnosis with catalepsy, which,
however, did not go beyond deep lethargy. Suggestion was begun in the
third sitting.
February 10. The patient says that he has no longer any interest in
men, but a growing interest in women. He begins to dream of women.
February 13. He feels himself free from masochism during the day, and
canes and whipping do not interest him any more. At night he still has
“weak” dreams of flagellation concerning men, but without lustful
feeling or pollution. A short time ago he had had a dream that was
entirely strange, and without erotic coloring, to the effect that he
whipped himself.
February 19. The patient attempted coitus with a puella pleasing to
him. Erection was incomplete, and ejaculation did not occur; so he
gave up the attempt. The patient finds that his libido toward women is
still very slight. He was not discouraged by his failure, and expected
ultimate success; for he felt free from his abnormal tendencies, and
like another man. On February 20, unfortunately, the patient had to
discontinue treatment, being called home by duties there.
The fact that traces of sadism (_v. infra_), were simultaneously
present, lends certainty to the diagnosis of this rudimentary case as
one of masochism. The purely psychical character of this latter
perversion is unquestionable. At the same time, the case is combined
with incompletely developed contrary sexual instinct, an association not
infrequent in masochists and sadists.
In contrast with this case of rudimentary masochism, in which there is
some difficulty of diagnosis, follows a typical case of masochism, in
which the whole circle of ideas peculiar to this perversion appears
completely developed. This case, in which there is a detailed personal
description of the whole psychical state, is different from Case 44 only
in that here there is no thought of a realization of the perverse
fancies; and that, notwithstanding the perversion of the vita sexualis,
normal stimuli are so far effectual that sexual intercourse is possible
under normal conditions.
Case 50. I am thirty-five years old, mentally and physically normal.
Among all my relatives, in the direct as well as in the lateral line,
I know of no case of mental disease. My father, who, at my birth, was
thirty years old, as far as I know, had a preference for voluptuous,
large women.
Even in my early childhood I loved to revel in ideas about the
absolute mastery of one man over others. The thought of slavery had
something exciting in it for me, and alike whether from the
stand-point of master or servant. That one man could possess, sell, or
whip another, caused me intense excitement; and in reading “Uncle
Tom’s Cabin” (which I read at about the beginning of puberty), I had
erections. Particularly exciting for me was the thought of a man’s
being hitched up before a wagon in which another man sat with a whip,
driving and whipping him. Until my twentieth year these ideas were
purely objective and sexless,—_i.e._, the one in subjugation in my
fancy was another (not myself), and the master was not necessarily a
woman. These ideas were, therefore, without effect on my sexual
instinct,—_i.e._, on the way in which it was expressed. Though these
ideas caused erections, yet I have never masturbated in my life; and
from my nineteenth year I had coitus without the help of these ideas
and without any relation to them. I always had a great preference for
elderly, voluptuous, large women, though I did not scorn younger ones.
After my twenty-first year my ideas became objective, and it became an
essential thing that the “mistress” should be a woman over forty years
old, tall, and powerful. _From this time I was always, in my fancies,
the subject_; the “mistress” was a rough woman, who made use of me in
every way, also sexually; who harnessed me before a carriage, and made
me take her for a drive; whom I must follow like a dog; at whose feet
I must lie naked, and be punished—_i.e._, whipped—by her. This was the
constant element in my ideas, around which all others were grouped. In
these fancies I always found endless pleasure, which caused erection,
but never ejaculation. As a result of the induced sexual excitement, I
would immediately seek a woman, preferably one corresponding
exteriorly with my ideal, and have coitus with her without any actual
imitation of my fancies, and sometimes also without any thought of
them during the act. At the same time, I also had inclination toward
women of a different kind, and had coitus with them without being
impelled to it by my fancy.
Notwithstanding all this, my life was not exceedingly abnormal
sexually; yet these ideas were certain to occur periodically, and they
have remained essentially unchanged. With growing sexual desire, the
intervals constantly grew shorter. At the present time the ideas come
every two or three weeks. If I have had coitus, the occurrence of the
fancies is perhaps postponed. I have never attempted to realize my
very definite and characteristic ideas,—_i.e._, to connect them with
the objective world,—but I have contented myself with reveling in the
thoughts; because I was convinced that my ideal would not allow even
an approach to realization. The thought of a comedy with paid
prostitutes always seemed to me silly and purposeless; for a person
hired by me could never take the place in my imagination of a “cruel
mistress.” I doubt whether there are sadistically constituted women
like Sacher-Masoch’s heroines. But, if there were such women, and I
had the fortune (!) to find one, still, in a world of reality,
intercourse with her would always seem only like a farce to me.
Indeed, I can say that, were I to become the slave of a Messalina, I
believe that, owing to the other necessary renunciations, my desired
manner of life would soon pall on me, and in my lucid intervals I
should try to obtain my freedom at all hazards.
Yet I have found a way in which to induce, in a certain sense, a
realization. After my sexual desire has been intensely excited by
reveling in my fancy, I go to a prostitute and there call up before my
mind’s eye, with great intensity, some scene of the kind mentioned, in
which I play the principal _rôle_. After thinking of such a situation
for about half an hour, with a constantly resulting erection, I
perform coitus with increased lustful pleasure and strong ejaculation.
After the latter, the vision fades away. Ashamed, I depart as quickly
as possible, and try not to think of the affair. Then, for about two
weeks, I have no more such ideas; indeed, after a particularly
satisfactory coitus, it may happen that, until the next attack, I have
no sympathy whatever with masochistic ideas. But the next attack is
sure to come sooner or later. I must, however, state that I also have
coitus without being prepared by such ideas, especially, too, with
women that are acquainted with me and my position, and in whose
presence I abhor such fancies. _Under the latter circumstances,
however, I am not always potent, while, with masochistic ideas, my
virility is perfect._ It does not seem superfluous to add that
otherwise, in my thought and feeling, I am very æsthetic, and despise
anything like maltreatment of a human being. Finally, I will not leave
unmentioned the fact that the form of address is of importance. In my
fancies it is essential that the “mistress” address me in the second
person (_Du_), while I must address her in the third (_Sie_). This
circumstance of being thus familiarly addressed (_Du_) by a person so
inclined, as the expression of absolute mastery, has, from my youth,
given me lustful pleasure, and does to-day.
I had the fortune to find a wife who is in everything, but especially
sexually, attractive to me; though, as I scarcely need say, she in no
way resembles my masochistic ideal. She is gentle, but proud; for
without the latter characteristic I cannot conceive such a thing as
sexual charm. The first few months of married life were normal
sexually; the masochistic attacks did not occur, and I had almost lost
all thought of masochism. Then came the first confinement and the
necessary abstinence. Punctually, then, with the occurrence of libido,
came the masochistic fancies again, which, in spite of my great love
for my wife, necessitated coitus with another, with the accompaniment
of masochistic ideas. It is here worthy of note that _coitus
maritalis_, which was later resumed, did not prove sufficient to
banish the masochistic ideas, as masochistic coitus always does. As
for the essential element in masochism, I am of the opinion that the
ideas,—_i.e._, the mental element,—are the end and aim.
If the realization of the masochistic ideas (_i.e._, passive
flagellation, etc.) be the desired end, then it is in opposition with
the fact that the majority of masochists never attempt realization;
or, when this is attempted, great disappointment occurs, or at least
the desired satisfaction is not obtained.
Thus the reveling in imagination is the principal thing; and, in fact,
this gives an unspeakable delight that takes its subject beyond
external things, beyond all troubles and cares.
It is an astonishing fact that there is an author, who, instead of
keeping them to himself, as others do, discloses his imaginary ideals
to the world in novels and romances. In “Venus in Furs,” we find those
that are like us in feeling,—word for word, line for line, are
expressed the ideas so familiar to us, which we believe to be our own
exclusive discovery.
Until then I did not think it possible that there could be, in any
other brain than mine, the lustful thought of being harnessed to a
plow and made to work like a draught-horse.
And the ill-temper of the mistress to be served at the toilet and
bath; the imprisonment,—ah, how familiar such ideas are to us from
childhood!
Therefore, perhaps by reason of this open disclosure of things that
should be secret, the reading of this book shocks masochists,
undeceives them, and exerts a curative influence.
Finally, I should mention that, according to my experience, the number
of masochists, especially in large cities, seems to be quite large.
The only sources of such information are—since men do not reveal these
things—words of prostitutes; and, since they agree on the essential
points, it may be concluded that certain facts are proved.
Thus there is the fact that every experienced prostitute is accustomed
to keep some suitable instrument (usually a whip) for flagellation;
but it must be remembered that there are men who have themselves
whipped simply to increase their sexual pleasure; who, in contrast
with masochists, regard flagellation as a means to an end.
On the other hand, almost all prostitutes agree that there are many
men who like to play “slave,”—_i.e._, like to be so called, and have
themselves scolded and trod upon and beaten. As has been said, the
number of masochists is larger than has yet been dreamed.
As you can imagine, reading the “New Investigations”[62] made a great
impression on me. I should like to have faith in a cure, in a logical
cure, so to speak, in accordance with the motto: “Tout comprendre
c’est tout guérir.” (To understand all is to cure all.)
Of course the word _cure_ is to be taken with some limitation, and
there must be a distinction made between general feelings and concrete
ideas. The former can never be overcome; they come like a stroke of
lightning, are there, and one does not know whence or how.
But this practice of masochism in imagination, by means of concrete,
associated ideas, can be avoided, or at least restricted.
Now the thing is changed. I say to myself: What! you busy your mind
with things which not only the æsthetic sense of others, but also your
own, disapproves? You regard that as beautiful and desirable which, in
your own judgment, is at once ugly, coarse, silly, and impossible? You
long for a situation which in reality you can never obtain? This
opposing idea has an immediate inhibitory and undeceiving effect, and
takes the edge off the fancy. Too, since reading the “New
Investigations” (early this year), I have actually not reveled in my
fancy once, though the masochistic tendency has occurred with
regularity.
I must also confess that, in spite of its marked pathological
character, masochism is not only incapable of destroying my pleasure
in life, but it does not in the least affect my outward life. When not
in a masochistic state, as far as feeling and action are concerned, I
am a perfectly normal man. During the activity of the masochistic
tendencies there is, of course, a great revolution in my feeling, but
my outward manner of life suffers no change; I have a calling that
makes it necessary for me to move much in public, and I pursue it in
the masochistic condition as well as ever.
The author of the foregoing lines also sends me the following notes:—
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