Plain Facts for Old and Young by John Harvey Kellogg

7. Above all, seek for grace and help from the Source of all spiritual

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strength in every time of temptation, relying upon the promise, "Seek, and ye shall find." Hopeful Courage.--An individual who will earnestly set himself about the work of purifying his mind and redeeming his body, if he will conscientiously adopt, and perseveringly apply, the remedies pointed out, _may be sure of success_. There can be no possible chance for failure. Triumph is certain. Patience may be tried and faith tested, but unwavering trust in God and nature, and an executed determination to do all on his part, will bring to every such one certain recovery. There may be some scars left, a few traces of the injury wrought; but the deliverance will be none the less triumphant. Faith and perseverance will work wonders. General Regimen and Treatment.--After long abuse of the sexual organs, and in many cases after a short course of sin, the whole system becomes deteriorated; digestion is impaired, the muscles are weakened, the circulation is unbalanced, the nerves are irritable, the brain--especially the back and lower portion of it--is congested, the skin is torpid, the bowels are inactive, the general health is deranged in almost every particular. All of these morbid conditions serve to keep up the very difficulty which has produced and is increasing them. Any curative effort, to be effective, then, must be directed to these as well as to local conditions; and it is pretty certainly established that local remedies or applications alone will rarely accomplish any appreciable good, at least of a permanent character. Many of the observations on treatment are equally applicable to both sexes; but particular directions have been especially adapted to males, and chiefly with the cure of seminal emissions as the object in view. This remark will explain any seeming lack of completeness. Mental and Moral Treatment.--The greatest impediment to recovery is usually found in the mind of the patient. His hopeless despair, melancholy, sullen apathy in many cases, want of energy, and fickleness of mind, thwart all attempts that are made for him. In other cases, the want of willpower, or neglect to exercise the will in controlling the thoughts, completely counteracts all that can be done for him. He must be made to understand this well, and then all possible means must be employed to attract his attention from himself, from brooding over his ills. Occupy him, interest him, or teach him to occupy and interest himself. The enthusiastic study of some one of the natural sciences is a most excellent auxiliary in effecting this. The thing of first importance is that the patient should obtain command of his thoughts; by this means, he can do more for himself than all the doctors can do for him. "But I cannot control my thoughts," says the patient. A young man said to me, "O doctor, you don't know how I feel. I despise myself; I hate myself; I often feel inclined to kill myself. My mind is always full of abominable images; my thoughts run away with me and I cannot help myself." The tears ran down his face in streams as he told me of his slavery. He solemnly affirmed that he had never performed the act of self-pollution but once in his life: and yet for years he had been a constant sufferer from nocturnal emissions until his manhood was nearly lost, evidently the result of the mental onanism which he had practiced without imagining the possibility of harm. But it is not true that control of the thoughts is impossible. Thoughts are the result of the action of the brain; and the action of the brain may be controlled as well as the movements of a voluntary muscle. It may be more difficult, especially when the resolution is weakened, as it is by this vice; but so long as there are left any remnants of will and reason, control is possible. To strengthen the will must be one of the objects of mental treatment, and exercise is the method by which it may be accomplished. The thing for a sufferer to say, is not, "I can't," but, "I can and I will control my thoughts." Suggestions which will aid in accomplishing this have already been given under the heading, "Cure of the Habit." We cannot forbear to add a word further respecting the worth of religion in aiding these sufferers. If there is any living creature who needs the help of true religion, of faith in God, in Christ, and in the efficacy of prayer, it is one of these. If there is any poor mortal who can not afford to be deprived of the aid of a sympathizing Saviour, it is one who has enervated his will, degraded his soul, and depraved his body by the vile habit of self-abuse. A compassionate Redeemer will succor even these defiled ones, if they truly "hunger and thirst" after purity, and if they set about the work of reforming themselves in good earnest, and with right motives. Exercise.--Physical exercise is a most powerful aid to pure thoughts. When unchaste ideas intrude, engage at once in something which will demand energetic muscular exercise. Pursue the effort until fatigued, if necessary, making, all the while, a powerful mental effort to control the mind. Of course, evil thoughts will not be expelled by thinking of them, but by displacing them by pure thoughts. Exercise aids this greatly. Exercise is also essential to balance the circulation, and thus relieve congestion of internal organs. Sedentary persons especially need systematic exercise. No single form of exercise is so excellent as walking. Four or five miles a day are none too many to secure a proper amount of muscular exercise. Gymnastics, the "health-lift," "Indian clubs," "dumb-bells," rowing, and other forms of exercise are all good; but none of them should be carried to excess. Ball-playing is likely to be made a source of injury by exciting, in vigorous competition, too violent and spasmodic action. Daily exercise should be taken to the extent of fatigue. It is better that those who are still strong enough should have some regular employment which will secure exercise. Those who prefer may secure exercise and recreation in the pursuit of some study that involves necessary physical exertion; as, botany, geology, or entomology. The collection of natural-history specimens is one of the most pleasant diversions, and may be made very useful as well. Pleasant companionship is essential to the best progress of these patients, especially in their walks, as much more exercise may be taken without an unpleasant sense of fatigue with a cheerful companion than when alone. Solitude should be avoided at all times as much as possible. Diet.--So much has already been said upon the relation of diet to chastity and its influence upon the sexual organs that it is unnecessary to add many remarks here. Nothing could be more untrue than the statement made by some authors that the nature of the diet is of no consequence. The science of physiology teaches that our very thoughts are born of what we eat. A man that lives on pork, fine-flour bread, rich pies and cakes, and condiments, drinks tea and coffee and uses tobacco, might as well try to fly as to be chaste in thought. He will accomplish wonders if he remains physically chaste; but to be mentally virtuous would be impossible for him without a miracle of grace. One whose thoughts have been so long trained in the filthy ruts of vice that they run there automatically, and naturally gravitate downward--such a one must exercise especial care to secure the most simple, pure, and unstimulating diet. The following precautions are necessary to be observed in relation to diet:--

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Perhaps nothing tends more directly to the production of menstrual 17. 1. If a child is begotten in lust, its lower passions will as certainly 18. 2. The same remarks apply with equal force to the transmission of other 19. 3. The influence of the father is, at the outset, as great as that of 20. 4. If during gestation the mother is fretful, complaining, and 21. 1. For the beginning of a new life, select the most favorable time, 22. 2. If a child has been properly conceived, the duty then devolves upon 23. 3. After birth, the mother still possesses a molding influence upon 24. 1. During the development of the body, all its energies are required 25. 2. The reproductive act is the most exhaustive of all vital acts. Its 26. 3. The effects upon the female are even worse than those upon the male; 27. 2. That a robust man requires more than one woman to satisfy his sexual 28. 3. That there are more women than men; and since every woman has a right 29. 4. That the great men of all ages have been polygamists in fact, if 30. 5. That monogamy is a relic of the paganism of the ancient Greeks and 31. 6. That it is the only proper and effective cure for the "social evil," 32. 1. We deny most emphatically the assertion that polygamy is either 33. 2. The second argument is based upon the asserted fact that man 34. 3. While it is true that there are a few more adult women than men, 35. 4. In proof of the propriety of polygamy, as well as of its necessity, 36. 5. The fact that monogamy was practiced among the ancient Greeks and 37. 6. The argument that polygamy will cure the "social evil" is exactly 38. 1. They are useful as well as healthful. While they call into action 39. 1. The sexual function is for the purpose of producing new individuals 40. 2. In the animal kingdom generally, the reproductive function is 41. 3. In those exceptional cases in which the organs of the male are in 42. 4. Fecundation of the female element can only take place about the time 43. 5. The desire for sexual congress naturally exists in the female only 44. 6. The constant development of the sexual organs in human males is a 45. 7. The time of sexual congress is always determined by the condition 46. 1. The fact that in all animals but the human species the act can be 47. 2. The fact that the males of other animals besides man in which the 48. 3. The general law that the reproductive act is performed only when 49. 1. The moment that prostitution is placed under the protection of law 50. 2. Why should so vile a crime as fornication be taken under legal 51. 3. By the use of certain precautionary measures the fears of many will 52. 1. Those which may arouse suspicion, but any one of which, taken singly, 53. 2. Those which may be regarded as positive. Several suspicious signs 54. 1. _General debility_, coming upon a previously healthy child, marked 55. 2. _Early symptoms of consumption_--or what are supposed to be such--as 56. 3. _Premature and defective development_ is a symptom closely allied 57. 4. _Sudden change in disposition_ is a sign which may well arouse 58. 5. _Lassitude_ is as unnatural for a child as for a young kitten. A 59. 6. In connection with the preceding symptom will generally be found, 60. 7. _Sleeplessness_ is another symptom of significance. Sound sleep is 61. 8. _Failure of mental capacity_ without apparent cause should occasion 62. 9. _Fickleness_ is another evidence of the working of some 63. 10. _Untrustworthiness_ appearing in a child should attract attention 64. 11. _Love of solitude_ is a very suspicious sign. Children are naturally 65. 12. _Bashfulness_ is not infrequently dependent upon this cause. It 66. 13. _Unnatural boldness_, in marked contrast with the preceding sign, 67. 14. _Mock piety_--or perhaps we should more properly designate it as 68. 15. _Easily frightened_ children are abundant among young masturbators, 69. 16. _Confusion of ideas_ is another characteristic of the devotee of 70. 17. Boys in whom the habit has become well developed sometimes manifest 71. 18. _Round shoulders_ and a stooping posture in sitting are 72. 19. _Weak backs, pains in the limbs, and stiffness of the joints_, in 73. 20. _Paralysis_ of the lower extremities, coming on without apparent 74. 21. The _gait_ of a person addicted to this vice will usually betray 75. 22. _Bad positions_ in bed are evidences which should be noticed. If 76. 23. _Lack of development of the breasts_ in females, after puberty, 77. 24. _Capricious appetite_ particularly characterizes children 78. 25. One very constant peculiarity of such children is their extreme 79. 26. _Eating clay, slate-pencils, plaster, chalk,_ and other 80. 27. Disgust for simple food is one of the traits which a victim of this 81. 28. _The use of tobacco_ is good presumptive evidence that a boy is 82. 29. _Unnatural paleness_ and colorless lips, unless they can be 83. 30. _Acne_, or _pimples_, on the face are also among the suspicious 84. 31. _Biting the finger nails_ is a practice very common in girls 85. 32. The eyes often betray much. If, in addition to want of luster and 86. 33. An habitually moist, cold hand, is a suspicious circumstance in 87. 34. _Palpitation of the heart_, frequently occurring, denotes a 88. 35. _Hysteria_ in females may be regarded as a suspicious circumstance 89. 36. _Chlorosis_, or _green sickness_, is very often caused by the unholy 90. 37. _Epileptic fits_ in children are not infrequently the result of 91. 38. _Wetting the bed_ is an evidence of irritation which may be 92. 39. _Unchastity of speech_ and fondness for obscene stories betray a 93. 2. Loss of the seminal fluid. 94. 1. The composition of the nerves and that of spermatozoa is nearly 95. 2. Men from whom the testes have been removed before puberty, as in 96. 1. Begin by a resolution to reform, strengthened by the most solemn 97. 2. Resolve to reform _now_; not to-morrow or next week, but this very 98. 3. Begin the work of reform by purging the mind. If a lewd thought enters 99. 4. As a help to purity of mind, whenever impure thoughts enter, 100. 5. Avoid solitude, for then it is that temptation comes, and you are 101. 6. Strictly comply with all the rules laid down for the cultivation 102. 7. Above all, seek for grace and help from the Source of all spiritual 103. 1. _Never overeat_. If too much food is taken at one meal, fast the 104. 2. _Eat but twice a day_, or, if supper is eaten, let it be very light, 105. 3. _Discard all stimulating food_. Under this head must be included, 106. 4. _Stimulating drinks_ should be abstained from with still greater 107. 5. In place of such articles as have been condemned, eat fruits, grains, 108. 1. From seven to nine hours' sleep are required by all persons. The 109. 2. Arise immediately upon waking in the morning if it is after four 110. 3. If insufficient sleep is taken at night, sleep a few minutes just 111. 4. Never go to bed with the bowels or bladder loaded. The bladder should 112. 5. The position in sleeping is of some importance. Sleeping upon the 113. 6. Soft beds and pillows must be carefully avoided. Feather-beds should 114. 7. Too many covers should be avoided with equal care. The thinnest 115. 8. Thorough ventilation of the sleeping-room, both while occupied and 116. 9. If wakeful at night, instead of lying in bed trying to go to sleep, 117. 10. One of the most effectual panaceas for certain varieties of 118. 1. It is not a remedy, since, as in the case of illicit intercourse, 119. 2. If it were a remedy, it would not be a justifiable one, for its use 120. 3. As another reason why the remedy would not be a _proper_, even if 121. 1. Give the matter prompt attention. Do not delay to adopt curative 122. 2. Set about the work of getting well with a fixed determination to 123. 3. Avoid watching for symptoms. Ills are greatly exaggerated by 124. 4. Never consult a quack. The newspapers abound with lying 125. 5. Do not despair of ever recovering from the effects of past 126. 6. Every sufferer from sexual disease must make up his mind to live, 127. 2. The production of similar individuals which shall also have the power

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